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I want a baby but his penis does not go inside my vagina, why?

Q.   it has been one year of our marriage but still i m not getting pregnant.me and husband have sex twice or thrice in a week without taking any precautions. we love each other madly. we do our best to get pleasure but we dont know that why his penis ...

A.   3 August 2008: i dont get it... write another one and explain better... he doesnt cum inside you? or his dick doesnt go in you at all or what? because if it doesnt go in... then its not really sex.. please explain better. :)... (read in full...)

Why would he rather wack off than have sex with the girl that's right there?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. I like to have sex regularly but I'm not a fiend or anything. He's a normal red blooded male, I know he looks at porn although it's not something we discuss, and I know he pleasures himself when ...

A.   3 August 2008: Maybe he cant cum when having sex.. (just a thought) or maybe it just takes him a really really long time. Some guys can only cum when they jack.... (read in full...)

My husband is being very strnage and 2 faced about our divorce....

Q.   my husband of 25 yrs and i seperated 3months ago, we have three children together, 23, 21 and 8 yrs old, a divorce has been filed, today was supose to be our final hearing, but a continunace was filed for october. hes been living with another woman, ...

A.   30 July 2008: Girl. he doesnt need anymore chances. He has more than over stayed his welcome. If he is gonna be there for a day, to USE you now, he will continue to do so.. and with that woman calling your house, i would get a restraining order. good luck.. dont ... (read in full...)

I'll wake up and find out he's secretly looking at porn and masturbating, when earlier he refused to have sex with me, claiming he was tired!!!

Q.   My boyfriend would rather jack off than have sex with me. We very rarely have sex! seriously it sucks. I will ask him to have sex and he will say hes too "tired", or ill even get on top of him and try to get things going and it wont work! then ill ...

A.   28 July 2008: thanks all for your help.. and i just wanna say to comment number 2, when we do have s=sex he doesnt have a hard time getting hard at all.... (read in full...)

I am almost obsessed with the idea of getting married and having kids, should I be thinking about this?

Q.   Okay my bf and i have been together for almost three months and i am 17 and he is 19. Anyway, I am almost obsessed with the idea of getting married and having kids i mean what girl doesnt think about that, i just want to know if im being too ...

A.   27 July 2008: i think you need to slow down, your young and being married and having kids at a young age is HARD! Im sure you hear that all the time but its the truth. Im young and made the mistake of having a baby at a young age ( i love my daughter more than ... (read in full...)

My Girlfriend was forced to suck someone off before and since then she is not into for me how can I get her to do it?

Q.   my girl was forced to do it once a few years ago but now when i ask or go down on her i get nothing back and its really frustrating i mean i wont break up with her because of it its just sometimes i wish she would just do it is there anything i can ...

A.   27 July 2008: being forced to do something is no fun, so im sure she is a little upset about it, because its almost like rape and a bad memory can affect her for a long time.. just give it a while, dont bring it up and eventually she will be more comfortable.... (read in full...)

He says I forced him to cheat because I'm so negative! Is that true?

Q.   Little confused, I've been with my boyfriend for about 3yrs we we're livin together but I got my own place because of personal reasons..I don't trust him, cheated 2x with the same girl, we got to an argument and he blurted out that he met a girl ...

A.   27 July 2008: stop being so negative.. though you being negative shouldnt FORCE him to cheat, negativity isnt healthy (i should know, im extremely negative and its ruining my relationship so ive been trying to stop being so negative) anywho, he seems like a pig, ... (read in full...)

Get ex back? Or let him have my other ex's girlfriend?

Q.   Me and my ex had a great relationship for over three months! We broke up because he said he needed a break... I was heartbroken! I talked him into getting back together the next day! A few days later he still wasnt happy with me and broke up with me ...

A.   27 July 2008: eff that guy! you dont need him. he's no good, and clearly you guys dont do well together!! i honestly dont see how people could break up and get back together sooo many times. just let him do his thing.... (read in full...)

I've been seeing him for two months, I'm pregnant and he's acting distant.

Q.   well ive been seein this person for like 2 months n at the start everythin was great i couldnt of wished to be happier but recentl like 3 weeks ago he's been distant from me n i was askin him if everythin was ok n he was sayin everythins kool but i ...

A.   27 July 2008: hunny, its clear he doesnt wanna be with you. It probably has something to do with your attitude AND something to do with you being pregnant. Alot of guys get upset when their girlfriends get pregnant.. especially if its unplanned.. i do suggest you ... (read in full...)

What makes a parent love one child more than another?

Q.   can anybody tell me what makes a parent love their child less than their other children and blatantly show it....

A.   27 July 2008: what are some of the things your parents do that make you think they love you less? maybe your paranoid.. or maybe they just show their love differently towards you.... (read in full...)

My husband is addicted to porn and I'm fed up

Q.   My husband of 25 years has been using pornograpy off and on since we've been married and has always had problems keeping erections. Doctors have never found any physical problems. We've been to counseling and he says that he loves me but he just ...

A.   27 July 2008: go to the store and buy something EXTREMELY sexy! Make him feel like he has no reason to look at porn. Do things like whisper in his ear.. just spice things up.. use a whip if you have to! good luck... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is telling me my vagina is too wide, what should I do?

Q.   my boyfriend told me that i have a wide vagina and theres no feeling for him when we have sex. what could be the problem?, and what can i do to fix it?...

A.   27 July 2008: yea ive never really heard of a wide vagina either.. it could be that you are too wet when your having sex... but i dont know.. but i DO know that if you sit in a tub of hot water it can tighten your vagina.. (the muscles) so try that.. sit in there ... (read in full...)

Having trouble socially...any advice for me?

Q.   I'm really depressed over the fact that I had never had girlfriend.Several hours ago I was crying and feeling incredible pain,just like always.A bit later my best(and only) friend calls.I was in no mood to talk because of my depression,which he ...

A.   27 July 2008: First of all, i wanna say that alot of people i know havent had a boyfriend or girlfriend till they were atleast 20. I met my boyfriend when he was 20 and he was my first boyfriend and i was his first girl. Anyway.. to help be more confiden... (read in full...)

My wife says I am in love with my friend. Is she right?

Q.   I am married. I love my wife and daughter. Lately I find myself thinking about a friend (who is female) alot. We talk to each other 3-4 times a day. My wife says my face lights up when I talk to this friend. She says that I am in love with this ...

A.   27 July 2008: wow. if you want to be intimate with her... YOU DONT NEED TO BE TALKING TO HER ANYMORE!!!! ESPECIALLY IF YOU LOVE YOUR WIFE!! lol If you think about her, it doesnt mean your in love really... just... lust? idk but it would be best if you stopped ... (read in full...)

What can I do about my girlfriend not being ready to have sex? I'm tired of waiting.

Q.   Okay - So, I've been dating a girl that studies with me (collage) for about 10+ months already, and we haven't had sex yet. We are both virgins - believe it or not! I really like her and I know she really likes me, but I don't know why she doesn...

A.   27 July 2008: All i have to say really is wait- i mean thats all you really can do.. right? if you really truely love her, you will wait. Its the best thing to do, because you dont wanna end up seeming annoying or somehow push her away from you.-maybe she is ... (read in full...)

My fiance has lost his interest in sex, should I be worried?

Q.   My soon to be husband hasn't had sex with me in 2 weeks. Prior to that it had been 10 days before we engaged in sex. He says he isn't in the mood ever, and that he is too tired. This worries me , because we are a young couple about to marry. How ...

A.   26 July 2008: im not trying to say he is, BUT maybe he is trying to give you a hint.. OR he masterbates because its easier and less work.. but whatever it is i hope things get better.. Try wearing something sexy or try kissing him all over to get the mood right.... (read in full...)

Should I forgive him for cheating on me, and lying to me about it?

Q.   Okay, so I've been dating this guy for nearly two years now. Three days after we started dating, he was alone with this girl, and HE SAYS that she kissed him goodbye when she left, not knowing that he was dating me. However, he did not even tell me ...

A.   26 July 2008: clearly if he made another name and was trying to be secretive, you shouldnt be with him. your young and dont need someone who lies and messes with your brain, heart, and emotions.. if he said he wanted to cheat on you again, he WILL.. eventually.. ... (read in full...)

My libido decreased to the point I feel no pleasure at all, what can I do?

Q.   im 24 and since 20 ive had decreasing libido to the point of i cant even get myself off. ive never enjoyed sex with anyone theres no difference in sensitivity sex feels the same as touching my elbow and i cant feel oral sex either. i had an extr...

A.   26 July 2008: thats pretty much the same with me too.. can you feel anything when you touch your clit? or is the feeling just gone?... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant or is it all in my head?

Q.   This may sound crazy but I had unprotected sex back in march I didn't have a period in April but I bled in may I didn't bleed in June I bled this month and I've still been feeling pregnant I have abdominal pain headaches cravings sore breasts befo...

A.   26 July 2008: you dont get too many cravings or really hungry at least until you're 5 months pregnant. i think it may be all in your head.. go to the doctor if you really think you are.... (read in full...)

Is my penis too small??

Q.   I am a thirteen year old boy and was wondering if my penis is to small. It's only 5inches when fully erect and 3inches when small. Is it to small?...

A.   26 July 2008: thats cute, your only 13, you will grow.. and they say 5 is average.. so your good!... (read in full...)

I get picked on and I'm mad at one of my friends for saying something. Why would she do that?

Q.   I get pick on a lot because people think I'm gay (which I'm not.) the "popular" kids shoved me into lockers, beat me up. One day I talking to my friends (who hadn't ditch me to be popular) until those guys push me into a locker and I started ...

A.   26 July 2008: of course she did it because she's trying to help and doesnt wanna see you get hurt. ... (read in full...)

My partner just ignores my wish for more affection. Now I've met this new guy.

Q.   i've been with my partner for 3yrs now and we have 3 kids between us. i love him more than anything despite him having cheated many times. i'd never want to hurt him. thing is, more and more stuff is irritating me about him and he never just hugs me ...

A.   26 July 2008: im the same way! my man couldnt care LESS about me! You should leave him, its clear he doesnt care for you. and if you met another man whom makes you feel good.. GO FOR IT! ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for me to go out with my underage girlfriend?

Q.   ok I have a question concerning me and my girlfriend. I am 18 and she is 14. was a big surprise for me when i found out she was 14 when she looks and acts around 16. and I was wondering is it extremely wrong for me to date her? I like her a ...

A.   26 July 2008: i think its a little wrong.. i mean if HER parents are ok with it, i say go for it, but i know my little sister who is 16, was sneaking around with a 23 year old. and that made me mad as hell... but if her parents are ok, (which they probably wont ... (read in full...)

We're at it every night, and I still can't get pregnant.

Q.   ok this is a weird question but i have been having problems getting pregnant.me and my fiance are at it like everynight.and im still not pregnant.i have had a syst taken off my overy but i still have both,could that be causing it?if so what can i do ...

A.   26 July 2008: Sometimes when you have sex TOO much, it can cause you to not get pregnant because he uses too much sperm.. might sound weird but i was having sex with my man for over a year before i finally got pregnant and my dotor said it was because we had sex ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend cheated four times. Will she change?

Q.   My grlfriend cheated on me four times,but I still love her and we got a child together.Do you think she will ever change?...

A.   26 July 2008: once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater they say... BUT i dont know, if she says she will change, you could give her a chance, and if she doesnt.. i would break up OR cheat on her!! i know its hard to break up with someone when you have a child, but its not ... (read in full...)

I Won't Give Up on an Older Guy, Even Though He's Engaged

Q.   the man i love recently (as in a few days back) got engaged to his girlfriend of about 3 years. i can't explain it how intensely i feel this, but i KNOW we are meant to be together. i feel it strongly enough to CONFIDENTLY say that we are MEANT to...

A.   26 July 2008: ok, CLEARLY he is using you for sex or comfort or whatever it is you do with him. Im not trying to be a hater, but you need to give it up... if he got ingaged WHILE being with you, he clearly has no feelings what so ever for you. Stop being needy. ... (read in full...)

I need tips on how to do an abortion myself.

Q.   okay, so im 14 and about a week ago, i had sex. and we didnt use a condom. but heres the thing, it was in the pool. im affraid to tell my parents that i might be preggo. and i dont want to tell them at all. my bf bought a preggo test, but i have to ...

A.   26 July 2008: hi, there is still a chance you might not be pregnant, and doing an abortion by yourself is not good, you can ruin your insides and would have a really high chance of dying. If you are pregnant you need to go to the doctor. If you ask them to they ... (read in full...)

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