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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So basically I want your opinions on whether or not I'm wasting my time.So pretty much my best friend and I have an unspoken of relationship, and its really starting to bother me. A few months ago we finally established that both of us had feelings and it was nice for a few day we never actually stated that we were in a relationship. Then one night we actually kissed and it was very sweet and romantic, the next day we talked more than we usually do but neither of one us brought the kiss up. We stopped talking for a but because my feelings were hurt when I found out he kissed another girl but it was just that a peck. Now two weeks ago his mom went into the hospital and it was me he wanted around while he was upset. And we've been spending a lot of time together and its nice, but I know he talks to a lot of girls and flirts with them, but introduced me to his friends and im close with his family. The other girls are girls that he talks to and will makeover with them but he won't dodo anything else, and that upsets me and he tries to hide it since he found out it upsets me. But he's so protective if I talk to a guy he doesn't know he will come over and its kind of embarrassing and the other day I was babysitting and the kid has a crush on me and he got jealous. So I don't know if I should keep hope in a relationship with him or focus on our friendship. Any opinions would be appreciated.
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reader, N91  +, writes (19 November 2012):
 Give him an ultimatum, tell him that you like him and would like a relationship, that's the only way. This could possibly affect your friendship though if he doesn't feel the same.
Good luck
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