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*ajo2009
writes:i dont knw what to think please help.... one nite when my husband was sleeping i checked his facebook and he was telling all these girls they were beautiful whick botherd me but not as much as this other girl. he had been having alot of messages with here and asking her to come see him at his job and if he could go to bed with her. well i talked to him about it and he lyed and moved on. now almost everytime we have sex he goes limp what do you think that means? do you think that he has cheated on me??
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reader, dajo2009 +, writes (9 March 2012):
dajo2009 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for your help!!
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (7 March 2012):
 Ah, there you have it in one! By doing it doggy he can't see your face and he can then imagine that he is doing it with whomever he is thinking about!
Sorry.
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reader, dajo2009 +, writes (7 March 2012):
dajo2009 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have we have tryed.to do it different ways and place but the only poition he can keep it is if we are doing it doggie style.maybe it just me.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (7 March 2012):
It means you have a problem. If he can't / won't talk then you have a big problem. Trust and respect are fundamental to a relationship and at the moment you can't trust him and he is not respecting you. You need to fix this asap. If he won't then find a friend you can stay with till you sort it out - for better or worse. Good luck.
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (7 March 2012):
 Hold on a second. You found your husband whoring himself out to a bunch of women on FB and when confronted he lied about it. And what do you do? You have sex with him? The real question is: why are you having sex with a man, who has not only lied to you, but is also cheating on you?
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reader, TooConfused11 +, writes (6 March 2012):
First and foremost ur heart or gut feeling is usually right in this situation. But personaly I think he has deff cheated on you try spicing things up in the bedroom and if that doesnt help his erection issue than u will know for sure also when the man can only stay hard while his eyes closed thats a sure aign of fantasizing about another woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2012): He has cheated on you by sending messages to women, which a married man should not do. If he hasn't slept with anyone else, it is not from a lack of desire on his part to do so.
You need to rey and talk to him about this so you can move on with your lives together. Make it clear that you want to talk about what you've found out. Give him some time and space to do this, be patient and do not force the issue.
Do not try and have sex with him again until you have talked, and explain to him your decision.
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