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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi all, I hope someone can help me with this confusion.There is a guy who I really do have a thing for. I think he likes me too and finds me at least physically attractive if not more. The problem is he does flirt around other women, you know the kind of thing,tickling, tripping up and stuff. He appears to be like this with the other ladies (a little childish).I do know that he flirt with me too, but in my case it is a lot more subtle, lingering touches, softly speaking, lots of eye contact, always appears to know everthing about me and so on.What I would like to know is, how can you tell the difference, what are some signs that he actually may feel something for a girl when he isn't saying anything? I have felt for some time that he really does like me, but something is nagging at me which says, he is enjoying the attention and I don't want to take his hints as serious, ask him out, only to be told that he has been messing around with me. I would feel such a fool as I do see quite a lot of him.What I need to know is: If a guy really had feelings for you or wanted to move up a step how would he flirt with you to let you know but without asking outright if he is shy?And, if he just found you fun to flirt with but did not intend to act on it, what signs are there?.I really like this guy, and although I would prefer him to make a move, I am not opposed to hinting a little, as long as I can feel that he won't shoot me down. A few clues would be great!Many thanks
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