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anonymous
writes:On a recent holiday I saw this girl who I thought looked nice, she soon then spoke to me shortly after I saw her. We got on really well and I arranged to meet her the following day. My initial thoughts of her age lead me to believe she was about 17 years old (I'm 18), although I never asked and neither did she for mine. The following day we met up again and the question was asked, she said she was 16 and I told her I was 18 and we were surprised by each others ages as I thought she looked older and she thought I looked younger. However this didn't affect how we got on well with each other. After a week of talking and getting to know each other she had to leave as it was the end of the holiday, we were both sad to be split up. However we did keep in touch after she got home through social networking sites etc and by this point she told me she was actually 15 an that she fancied me. When hearing this I was shocked at her age but also realised that I fancied her, but I also believe that 15 and 18 is an odd age grouping although I really like her! What should I do?
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reader, xAx +, writes (8 August 2010):
 I think you should take it slow with her and wait til she is 16 for anything official.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): Um too be honest, you are legally an adult and she isn't even considered old enough in the eyes of the law to have sex. I find it sad all these 15 year old girls are lying to their older boyfriend, they don't realize how much trouble they can get them in.
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reader, jrunlucky  +, writes (8 August 2010):
 right now i dont think it would be a good to date a 15 year old girl when your 18. although it will not matter much when you two are in your twenties. right now would be too soon and could possibly lead you into trouble. so dont make rash decisions based off "fancying" one another.
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reader, estc girl  +, writes (8 August 2010):
Well, I have a zillion friends who date people when theyre 15 and theyre girl/boyfriend is 18. Its normal!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): Well when is she 16 ? before you are 19 ?, if so it really dosnt seem too bad, i was still 15 when my boyfriend turned 18, but only for a couple of months, its really common for a 2 year age difference.
however if u were to turn 19 soon and she has only just turned 15 , that might be concidered quite bad, but if you like her enough it should'nt matter how other people judged you. Just make sure that its legal, Before you decide IF you decide to take a realtionship to another level. So that you are protecting yourself.
:)x
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