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writes:My girlfriend and I are ready for sex. This weekend is best as we'll be alone, but I'm nervous, will I get it up? What position? Will I get my penis in and orgasm? (with a condom on)I also want my girl to be happy.I know it's our 1st time, but trying to relax and seeing how it goes is easier said than done - there's more pressure on a boy.Please help!
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (5 June 2008):
 How long have you been together? Somebody hinted that you are not ready? If it has been a couple of months or more then you are probably as ready as you will ever be.
I say that because I think it is normal to be worried, and not feel truly ready so to speak. A bit like a first day in a new year at school, or a first day in a new job.
You know it will be fine, but you still worry anyhow.
Just act naturally.
The only think, when you climax, remember to withdraw straight away, or the condom will slip off inside her.
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reader, graciie; +, writes (26 April 2008):
if you are having all these worries and conserns you may not be ready, phyically you may think you are, but mentally and emotionally might not be.
and your girlfriend is probably just as nervous as you are,
just take it slow rerlax and enjoy it : )
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Just relax and start kissing, the rest comes naturally.....slow, slow, slow........is best, best, best...Gena
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reader, psze1 +, writes (25 April 2008):
It all depends on what you're trying to do. If you really care about her, and are trying to be in a long term relationship (2 years or more) then my advice would be to go slow, hold her, and maker sure SHE KNOWS that for your first time, its about her. Females, especially younger ones, are incredibly self-concious, and the slighteslt wrong move may ruin it for them, and your future chances with them. Be confident in yourself... if its her first time too, I cant possibly be bad for her as she has no prior exerpience. Definitely take is slow, and be as gentle as possible. its her first time and more likely than not, he body isnt accustomed to intercourse. It may be uncomfortable or even hurt for her. Remember, this isnt a porno, and shes not some random girl, she is your girlfriend.
I wouldnt really plan anything out either. Sex is supposed to be a physical representation of your love, and how much you care about her, so act accordingly. make sure theres plenty of foreplay prior to sex as well (you should be able to tell if, and when she's ready).
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (25 April 2008):
 first time is always the best time but remember if you dont' want to save it for someone special who am i to stop you . Make the moment right and just enjoy don't be nervous make sure you take time to take care of her and not just yourself. When you please you please yourself
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