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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Essentially, I met a girl a few weeks ago who I took to straight away. We text every day - pretty much all day (with a few exceptions). We've also been out for a drink (just the two of us) and even though I wouldn't have classed it as a date, I think she did. Last Saturday she came out and met up with me when I was out with a big group of friends - something she wanted to do.So here I am now, we're going out to dinner this weekend which is definitely a date, right? Everything's going great between us - we get on really well. My only concern is that after her last relationship, she said she was loathsome to get into another. That said, she really likes me. I've heard this from a number of people and the amount of time she takes to text me kinda confirms it. On top of this, I don't think she'd come out to dinner if she didn't at least have some interest in me. So anyway, I'm planning to stop beating around the bush and just tell her how I feel, though I haven't really figured what I'm gonna say yet...Now comes the question I'm actually directing at you guys, the rest of this was just background information to clear my head a bit! This is (I think) the first date - provided all goes well with telling her how I feel, do I go in for the kiss? If so, what type and when?Thanks for reading!
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reader, boo22 +, writes (28 October 2011):
 Mate, speaking as a woman, it'd be hotter if you go in for the kiss first and then tell her how you feel after.Just try and have the most fun together possible on the date and you won't have to worry about the big speech, it'll all happen naturally x
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 I think you will be able to tell if you should go for the kiss so my advice is "don't plan but don't not plan"
go with the flow
it should be quick and light and gentle if you do kiss her unless she clearly wants more.
I remember the first kiss with my boyfriend. I wanted to french kiss him but he was NOT ready and he was Shocked "you want to french kiss me" 'yep I do"
I left then.
we're getting married next year.... ROFL.
remember the person with the lower comfort level sets the parameters... respect her actions and behaviors...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 Well in my opinion she is interested in you, everything so far definitely sounds good. Yes it does sound like it is the first official date. I think you should go in for a kiss but keep it simple. It is always best in the first date to leave her wanting more. Therefore instead of being to full on keep it a simple little peck on the lips. Don't go for a full on kiss, a simple kiss is so much better for a first date and shows some respect as well. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you.
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