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Fiance on dating/sex website

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Question - (20 August 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have found out my partner is on a dating website well its more like a website for people to meet up and have sex.

The thing is he's 24 and its for people over 40!

I seen it on his emails and couldn't quite believe it (he uses my phone to log in to emails he had forgotten to log out so when I went to check my emails it was on there) I have had no trust issues before this we have been together almost 4 years and I've never thought he's cheated but now I'm wondering has he? Is he into older women? I'm so confused and don't even know how to bring it up or if I should? We have a good sex life and we have a son together.

I feel like he's some sort of sex fiend or something I don't know what to think everything I know of him now seems a lie/untrue. I feel disgusted by him and not sure what to do next. Any advice would be greatly appreciated especially from maybe someone who has been in this situation and what you did and outcome?

Thanks for reading and any advice.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2015):

There will never be the trust necessary for a strong relationship. End this as fast as you can.

Trust=Love=Trust.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2015):

It's possible that he is just doing this for a bit of fun w/o ever intending to meet anybody.

If you love the guy, ask if he met anybody and if he says no: tell him that you want him to stop doing stuff like this coz it makes you feel bad... If you catch him again dump him.

Also, I have to say, what BALLS to have this info on your phone!

(Okay, maybe some idiocy too!)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2015):

I found my boyfriend with swinger accounts saying he was single . He had made them years ago when single buy occasionally logged in to look through the pics and fantasise and masturbate. I confronted him. Told him I wasn't comfortable (as he had a secret email for all these sites.) He only logged I n every few months.he deleted everything. I would talk to him if I were you. Don't worry about the age thing. Lots of guys fantasise about older women. ..hence the term MILF

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