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writes:I'm 25 and am in love with a guy. He recently moved 12 hours away for school, but we still talk and text. If anything we're still good friends despite our intimate past. I'm really good friends with his much older brother but lately I've been getting the vibe that his brother likes me more than just a friend. We've hung out and had in-depth conversations, and sometimes he makes comments about my body and things he likes about me. I try not to comment on these things and oftentimes will avoid spending time alone with him. The only thing is I'm in love with his brother and want to be on good terms with his family members, plus his he is a really cool person. I don't know what to do. I don't want to say anything to the brother because my personal life is none of his business and he's never come out and told me that he likes me in that way. So it seems over-dramatic to reject his advances if he's never been clear about his intentions. I've thought about talking to the guy that I do like about it but that doesn't seem like a good idea to tell him about his brother. I don't want anyone thinking that I'm trying to play around with two brothers. But every time I talk to his brother or hang out with him it feels inappropriate.
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reader, bijou +, writes (10 June 2011):
Try to avoid him as much as you can and the day he finally tells you how he feels,that will be the great opportunity for you to politely tell him you are sorry you can't do that because you are in love with someone else. Usually plain truth hurts but its the best way to go about situations like this.Right now you are torturing yourself and its not right.
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