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What's wrong with my boyfriend?

Q.   I'm 14 and my boyfriends 16 soon, he wants to have sex but I'm not sure I do, he's not a virgin but I am! He always gets drunk and high, it dosent bother me usually but recently he feels me up and sticks his hands down my pants and top in front of ...

A.   25 August 2011: you are still too young and i think u should stand your grounds and don't get and there's no reason to have sex yet,besides this guy is not good 4 u. he will break u instead of making u and u don't want that. leave him now before the situation gets ... (read in full...)

Not happy with living situation with BF. What should I do about this other guy?

Q.   A few months ago I decided that I wanted to move in with my BF of almost 4 years. The first month things were great, then over the next two months things went down hill. And i didn't realize how bad they were until I met his best friend, (D.T.) ...

A.   11 June 2011: Forget about what people will say because they always say something whether things are bad or good. If u think you need space then move to your parents place,they are your parents and will definitely come around. As 4 D.T,he is a distraction and its ... (read in full...)

Is it understandable that I'm freaking out at my boyfriend? He went naked in view of her

Q.   Ok, I need to know if I should be mad about this. Me and my boyfriend live with his best friend who is a female. Last night we were playing around and he had just gotten out of the shower when he went to tell our roomate something (still. in his ...

A.   11 June 2011: If i were in your shoe,i'll be mad at the sight of that but i will handle it rationally. If u say the gurl is his bestfrd then you should tell him politely you think its not proper to go to the gurl's room in his towel. Anything he wants to tell her ... (read in full...)

We want to get matching tattoos any suggestions?

Q.   My fiance and I were thinking of tattoo ideas, and we are stumped. We have ideas, but we want to know some of your guys and dolls to make sure that we like ours. Haha. Yeah, we're lame. ANYWAY,There is just one little issue i have..he still has his ...

A.   11 June 2011: I strongly suggest you shouldn't go ahead with this tattoo stuff. Your fiance might love you so much but its not out of love that he wants you guys to have matching tattoos because from the look of things he is accustomed to having tattoos of who ... (read in full...)

I left my wife for her, now I fear she won't leave her husband for me!

Q.   This is a tough one. I am married and I have a friend who is also married, both of us are in unhappy marriages that have been unhappy for several years. We have been friends for 3 years, last year we started a relationship with each other and after ...

A.   11 June 2011: I believe your marriage didnot work out because you weren't in it yourself.you concentrated on someone else outta your marriage. You can't leave your marriage for another woman. Am glad u didn't mention any bad thing about your wife that means you ... (read in full...)

Tension in a 3 year relationship and I'm a virgin.

Q.   Ok, this may be a longer question. Please Help me out!! My boyfriend and I have been togheter for over 3 years. We love each other dearly, his family loves me as well...I was included in the family portrait. We are only 19 and 20. We have broken up ...

A.   11 June 2011: From my point of view this guy is really not in love with you but obsessed about you and the fact that you are a virgin. The moment you surrender your virginty to him is the beginning of many heart aches and misery. He does not deserve you and you ... (read in full...)

Feelings caught between two brothers

Q.   I'm 25 and am in love with a guy. He recently moved 12 hours away for school, but we still talk and text. If anything we're still good friends despite our intimate past. I'm really good friends with his much older brother but lately I've been ...

A.   10 June 2011: Try to avoid him as much as you can and the day he finally tells you how he feels,that will be the great opportunity for you to politely tell him you are sorry you can't do that because you are in love with someone else. Usually plain truth hurts ... (read in full...)

He wants me to be a housewife, but I want a career in medicine! What should I do?

Q.   Me and my bf love each other very much. He is two years older than me and is pursuing a job now. I am a medical student. These days we were talking about our marriage when one day he said after our marriage i'l have to take the whole responsibility ...

A.   10 June 2011: This is a very delicate issue and u must handle it with caution if not u risk losing him.u need to pray hard about this and make him understand that you derive joy in being a doctor thats why u went to medecine school, so you can't just throw all ... (read in full...)

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