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writes:I don't know what to do, I did something very stupid with this guy a week ago. I am so disappointed in myself, that I don't know what to do in this type of situation?! Basically, this guy I really liked him and I wasn't sure whether he did to, but recently he started making it clear he did. When he saw me he seemed really happy to run into me and would make the effort to come over and talk, he would do subtle things like put his arm around me, hold me from behind, grab my hand, things that just let me know he liked me. Well last thursday we kissed.. a lot! Which led to us both feeling each other up down there and nearly sleeping together. We didn't because I stopped before it got that far. But now he doesn't acknowledge me as much, he kind of makes me feel like he got what he wanted and is proud of it. I'm sure he isn't doing it intentionally, but the way he looks at me and makes me feel around him is not a good feeling! I'm so happy nothing more did happen, I would feel much worse. And I know we just kissed and felt each other up, but I still feel used? I'm really disappointed in myself for what I did, more ashamed because the worst part is he is with someone and I knew but still did it. So now I don't know what to do, I don't want to tell him he makes me feel used, because I knew he had a girlfriend and what I was getting into. Please don't judge me, I just don't know how to act around him and deal with this situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 November 2011):
 Just act cool and calm and collected. He's scummy to cheat on his girlfriend... don't tell him anything.
Live well
Ignore him back...
he got what he wanted
he's old news for you now and I bet 40 years from now you won't remember his name.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): Just learn from this mistake and ignore him, its never going to lead anywhere so you don't have to be polite even.
He also knew he had a girlfriend - and by the sounds of it, he isn't a great one at all.
Don't give him another thought.
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