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Feeling hurt and confused. We are not official. Yet why tell me had a date? was it said to get a reaction?

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Question - (24 May 2015) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Aunts,

There is a guy that I have been seeing.

Its not official or anything. We kiss, go out, go to each other homes etc. He has always described me as his part time woman which i feel like for the time but I want to take it to the next level.

Lately he has been telling me about his ex and how he wants to go away to study when she comes back.

Last night he was out with his guys and he wanted me to come with them but then said he doesnt think am accustomed to the night life.

Then he said the next day he had a date , after he said that he cancelled it, and passed home by my mom.

Why is he doing and telling me these things when its so obvious that I hate it. He knows that I like him so why do this? Also is he just saying these things to get a reaction???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2015):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

The truth is hard but thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2015):

You sadly are one of many for this guy.You do deserve better.He is using you for sex and that is all.Read the writing on the wall it is plain as day.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2015):

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Thanks @WiseOwlE for you response. I guess I am going to have to ask cause I am super confused .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2015):

He does it because you let him. If you want to know where things are going, you're going to have to ask. He honestly sounds like a jerk. You're his part-time woman? What the hell is that? Must be something akin to friends with benefits!

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