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Falling for my best friend when I have a boyfriend

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Question - (18 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *adgerBadger writes:

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and I feel like our relationship is losing it's spark. Me and my boyfriend argue over silly things, and I don't feel 100% in love with him like I did at the start. At the same time, I've been hanging out with my best friend from university a lot, and I think I've developped feelings for him. We are really close, we even flirt occasionally, and I have a feeling he likes me as well but I'm not sure. What should I do?! :(

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A female reader, NadgerBadger United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2011):

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I'm scared to tell him, because it might be that I'm misreading the signals and that my friend is just being friendly. It is really hard to tell whether he feels the same. Maybe I should go down the whole "getting another friend to ask" route. That way I don't embarrass myself personally!

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A male reader, helpOut.GuY United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2011):

helpOut.GuY agony aunti think you should tell him . i also think he feels the same way. and if were him i would want know if someone feelings for me :-) .

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