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30-35,
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writes:My boyfriend has a weird issue where, when I log onto Facebook, he somehow never notices I'm online. Especially in the evening, I'll say hello to him, and he'll just stay on for a few seconds then log off.It hurts me knowing he's online, we havent talked all day, but he's not interested in saying anything...even a quick goodnight? He says its because he didn't "see" me. On the other hand, I have a guy friend who watches for me to sign in 24/7 and checks all chat places to see if Im online. So is this like a personality thing?My boyfriend is very sweet, but what is up with this really happy to chat with me one day, log off/ignore the next?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2011): Look, I'm not the best at relationships, but you can blame this on a couple of things.1. Mark Zuckerberg was being a bitch and messed up Facebook chat.2. There is a certain lag time on servers, thus he might have gotten your messages a bit to late. So he could have logged off.The other things, I don't want to say, but it should be fine. That happened to me once. But know this: My girl and I are in a relationship still. It's fine . :)
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (12 August 2011):
 I HATE that online chat thing on facebook. I really wish that when I turned it off it would stay OFF. Maybe he is like me and sometimes just wants to check his facebook, see who's posted funny status updates, check out the pics and then log off.
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