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anonymous
writes:Okay,I confront her with proof about her stalking and she completely denied it. She went off on me about how she got better things to do with her time when she clearly did to it. She admitted it to someone as well a while back. All i asked her was for her to be honest and stop. Of course she couldn't do it and tried to make me look like the crazy one. Also, said she wants nothing to do with me and didn't care about what i do in my life. Then decided to go on twitter with her new girlfriend and make fun of me. Oh how it's my fault and move on cause shit happens. Her new girlfriend is gonna call me fake. Rubbing their relationship in my face and saying we was never anything.I admit, I'm angry. I don't want her back because she cheated and is just a damn liar. But i'm angry because I feel stupid and embarrassed that all this happen and feel really cheated. Empty and just angry. I don't know why since I really did do anything wrong but my best. I put my heart and soul in this relationship, made my world about her and this is what i get. Gave up my happiness for hers even when I suffered loses of my family and she promised she'll be there always. When I wanted to get better, she was getting mad and bitchy for some reason. I did it for us. I just got tired of being depressed and was gonna stand up for myself. I wouldn't give in anymore to her and she dumped me then wanted me back. I thought she was ready for us to start over until she cheated in 2 weeks. I had to confront her yet again and she ran away. Giving me an accuse i was lost. Funny enough, she dumped the person she cheated on me with for another. Then that's when the stalking started and she been doing it for months. Knowing all my accounts and looking over everything about me. I didn't even tell her about my accounts which make its even creeper. Now, I don't exist, yet getting stalked by someone who absolutely hate me.What do i do, why this happen and why am i so angry. I wanna get over this so bad because it's draining and hurting me so bad. I just don't understand and know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2011): Don't talk to her anymore, it sounds like any communication hurts you more and more and it just frustrated you that she would do this to you. I would tell her stop. Warn her and if you already did then block her in everyway you can. If she becomes persistent I think there is no other choice than bringing it to the next level of the police and having a restraining order put on her. Good luck.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 September 2011):
 Who cares why a disturbed person does weird things? The basic thing is to block her stalking and if you have to, report her to someone. Okay?
Take some basic security and privacy precautions, maybe spend the hours you might be thinking about her and learn about your own internet safety. It would be a good investment of your time.
Good luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGuess I'll never know why she does it. Just wanted to so i can know what to do.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 September 2011):
Change all your passwords. Block her on all social network sites you may use. Reset your privacy to 'friends only' and make yourself invisible on searches on these networks so she cannot stalk you.
Check your computer to ensure she didn't install a key-logger or other spyware; take it to a specialist if you don't know how to do it.
Speculating on her motives or trying to figure WHY she did what did is pointless; all you'll get at the end is a better understanding of a troubled person and insight into her pathology. As she is your ex, that's a complete wasted of your time and psychic energy.
If she is this disturbed and weird, people either know that already or will figure it out in time. Don't play into her pathology.
Block/delete/change passwords/report any stalking or harassment to the appropriate security team on the social sites. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not scared of her, she just so complex.
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