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writes: Hi,Ive been single for a little while now after being in a very long relationship.Right problem is ive recently met someone who ive instantly taken a liking to. Havent really talked to each other more than hello's and how are you's, and i only really see her when im out with my friends. We know a few of the same people.I was introduced to her by my female cousin who i get along with really well, and apparently told my cousin straight away how attractive she thought i was.It was a couple weeks since i saw her again, but my cousin ran into her in a club, and the girl asked who my cousin was with. Obviously my name came up and she told my cousin that she really wished she was single cos she really likes me. My cousin let slip that i like her too, which i think is a good thing, as she now knows.We spent the rest of the night exchanging glances, and i ran into her outside and she sat next to me while she talked to my cousin and laughed at me feelin a little drunken.Unfortunatley i know she has a long term boyfriend, and i would hate to get in the way of things, but ive heard they often fall out.What i really want to know is, even though she has a boyfriend, was her telling my cousin these things, that she wished she was single cos of me, a way for her to let me know, to test where she stands with me via talking to my cousin?I mean surely she must have known my cousin was gonna tell me.Or is this nothing?
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reader, Fade878  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 She may have noticed you more due to a fall out with the BF. She may find you attractive too.
Well don't fixate on her, if a woman comes to you and asks you to dance, to date...say yes. This other woman you are attracted to is just attraction and can't go anywhere further unless her relationship is truly ended.
Right?
You know what to do. Don't pursue the unpursueable no matter how good she is at flirting. She may just be doing it to feel attractive and wanted. Reaffirming she can have anyone. Females do this when they are hurting and doubting.
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Yes, she definitely wanted you to know. Take this slowly though because it could be hard to tell at first if she is really finished with her ex.
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