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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and i got tested for s.t.d.s two years ago and was clean. Now I just got chlamadia and he's the only guy I've been with. Does that mean he cheated on me?
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (14 August 2009):
 Sounds suspicious. If he has it, then he has to be treated too or else he's going to spread it across the planet.
He also needs to be honest with you and tell you how many people he's been with. It sounds like you have a lot of questions and he better have some good answers.
I don't know how inclined you are to continue on with him. But if it makes you feel any better, he had the opportunity to run and stayed with you. That may count for something but likely not enough for comfort.
Some people are accepting of so-called infidelities, but only to a point.
This is one of those times when you have to decide which side of this coin you fall on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): yes, it means that he cheated.
now that you have the proof, what are you going to do about him? also i think that as with other stds it doesn't go away but has to be treated all the time?? i don't know too much about this but please consider your health. also get an HIV test done as well. you don't know where he has been. you can never be too safe nowadays
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): Get the bit of paper that confirms you have this STD otherwise he will wriggle out of it - and confront him as absolutely he has given you this and I'm sorry for you but one consolation is that it can be treated and at least you know he is a cheat and you are not 2 more years down the line wasting your life on him. Do not, ever, get involved with him again.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (11 August 2009):
Hmm..yeah..sorry. Confront him, don't give him any slack, let him know he's dirty, sleeps with girls with diseases, and he's passed them on to you. Tell him it was a nice parting gift and your gift to him is to stay out of your life, forever.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 August 2009):
 what do you thinkk? hmmmm you said you havnt been with anyone exept him im sure the tooth fairy didnt give you an std, your man is a cheater confront him and dump him.
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