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writes: should i leave my girlfriend for having an affair on me after one and a half years of true love with her or should i give her a second chance? can she really love me again and never do it again?
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (15 January 2006):
She had an affair because you werent making her happy in some way and giving her a second chance is like saying "Look, I will let youstay with me but just be aware that I am keeping an eye on you." What kind of basis would that be for a healthy, happy relationship.
You wont forget what happened and it will take a long time to forgive but in order to have a happy relationship, you have to decide if she is for you and then start over again like you have just met up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2006): I would have my doubts on this one. The old saying goes..once a cheater always a cheater! I guess it really depends on how forgiving you are. Its really up to the individual. From my own experience's the relationship always changes drastically. It never is the same.1. You are always questioning your partner and are suspicious all the time.2. You have resentment for this person who you thought was completely devoted to you, and you only.3. Someone who you completely admired and looked up too, well.. that image is completley blown!Always remember, you want to be with someone who you are going to be able to trust,love and admire!Good Luck!
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