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*meliepoulain
writes:GuysOut of curiosity as I am confused about it. I went weeks ago to this gym class for the first time. As it was my first time I didn't know all the exercises the instructor(who btw is cute) was showing me all the time and paying no attention to the other people. At some point, I might have got frustrated by the attention cause he told me don't get upset. When the class was over and I was about to leave he run towards me and introduced himself and ask for my name he then said don't get upset and see u next time. Of course I went back and I saw him before the class he smiled and said I was thinking about you and I was wondering whether she will come... I didn't know how to respond and ask when does the class start and told him I will come to class but I pleaded him (so to speak )not to be so strict with me he said I won't be smiling again. Then today he was there again although he pay attention to other people he came towards naturally but I did see him smiling cheekily .I don't know if he is only trying to help me do the exercises or is he flirty, cause he knows he is good looking or he likes me? I don't know but I am interested to see what your views are!Thanks a lot
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reader, ameliepoulain +, writes (4 March 2011):
ameliepoulain is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy thoughts exactly why sb would behave like that he must have smth to gain thanks for clarifying it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011): Thank you guys for the responses ! I totally agree !!Btw I tried to rate your answers as excellent but it only accepted the first star!!
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reader, Flashtony +, writes (3 March 2011):
He's flirting..... To keep you in class..
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): If an instructor doesn't have a certain class size and retention rate, they will cancel his class and replace it with another class and another instructor. There's nothing wrong with him using his charm and charisma to keep his retention rate high. It takes less work to keep your current customer base happy and coming back than it does going out and recruiting new ones. I'll bet his class has many women in it and they are familiar with the drill.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (3 March 2011):
 The old cynic in me would suggest that his salary is perhaps dependent on class size. It is therefore probably in his own interests to be nice and welcoming to new clients in an effort to keep them coming back. Perhaps he does fancy you. While that is flattering I would say be careful. If he is blatantly flirting in a room full of clients then you won't be the first lady who caught his attention at the gym, and perhaps not the last. If you are looking for a bit of fun then there is probably nothing wrong with dating the gym hunk. However, if you are hoping for a serious relationship just take care...he maybe a player.
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