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writes:i had a crush on my cousin.since then i got into another relationship but in between there was a problem and i went to him for advice but he advised me to break up.but anyways me and my boyfriend spoke and solved the problem but he said to stay single because my cousin thought it wasn't a good idea and so i never told my cousin that i was back with my boyfriend.but now after a couple of years he himself proposed me without knowing i was in a relationship.but i declined his proposal and told him that he is imagining that he is in love with me.and so i don't know what came over him,he himself told me he imagined that he loved me and asked sorry.i din't know how to react.i still have a crush on him and i am still in a relationship.does my cousin love me or not?now when i ask him again if he loves me or not,he says he can't fall in love with anyone and he has his own problems and asked me to stay away from him.what does this mean?does he love me or not
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reader, j321 +, writes (31 May 2011):
He is in love with you and he is terrified about what the family might think. There such a thing as genetic attraction where cousins and siblings fall in love with each other. A person can not help who they fall in love with and if you two truely are in love with each other, your marriages will suffer in time because of your longing to be with each other. I think you should follow it through and see where it leads. If you are truely in love the both of you can handle things with you family, if you are not in love you will resolve this and be abke to move on into a healthy marriage with someone else. My advise is do not leave it undone, it causes more harm than not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): I don't think you should be with him at all because he is you cousin and that's really gross not trying to be mean or anything
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