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Does my cousin care about me or did she just want sex?

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Question - (1 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2009)
A male Trinidad and Tobago age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey I am 16teen years of age an i need to hear what you think.i have this cousin .She and i are well close friends.here's the story.we had to go to our uncles wedding and me and her were at the back of her mom's car and we were talking.she asked me how old i was,who i am to her,well u get the idea.so we started 2 hold hands an talked some more.all of this was happening in the back of the car while her mom,my aunt,was driving.

she's two years older than me.she i tink she was testing me.am not sure.but she showed me some explict text messages.i ask her who writes this stuff and she smiled at me.then we had arrived at the brides house.she followed me to where i sat and we both acted so innocent like if nothing was going on.soon after we had to head to the bride grooms house so we headed back to the car.my mom came in to the car so her mom an my mom were in the front and we were in the back.before we headed to the groom's house we stopped for a drink.i tool a pass.my cousin took a drink.she never finished the whole bottle.it was 42 or 52% alchol.so off we went.

we held hands as usual.then she came closer an closer to me until she took her right leg an put it between my legs.you know close to what.then she touched me by my abs an my chest until she was going lower,but before she did we had arrive to the grooms house.her mom ,my mom didn't see anything and i know that if they did that we both would have been in trouble.i know how it would have affected her but i don't know why i didn't say stop.i had dis feeling in my heart.it was heavenly.don't know what it was.

after the wedding was over we went back to the car.when we left and was heading home she came on top of me.i was sitting an she was on top.i watched the way she looked at me and in my thoughts i asked my self if she is really doing this.if its with her own free will.i don't know if she cared about me in any way.if she had any feelings in anyway for me.all i want to know is if she cared or had feelings for me and what type of person you think she is?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

I'm confused. Why do you care what she thinks of you? She sounds like an easy lay. Hook up with her, and just enjoy the sex. Not everyone is so lucky.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (1 July 2009):

eyeswideopen agony aunt"what type of person you think she is?" A tipsy horny person come to mind. I think you should regard this incident as an isolated one.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

Your cousin sounds like a fast girl and she was teasing you to get attention.

It is inappropriate for cousins to be fooling around with each other and next time keep your distance from her...she doesn't seem very nice to me....trouble maker for sure.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

Waz d scene

Firstly if you don't know what type of person she is, then we don't know what type of person she is. She may have felt attraction for you but I would not suggest to get carried away in your thoughts with it because that 42 or 52 % alcohol would play a huge factor in her decision making even though she didn't finish the whole bottle.

I would not get too attached to her as well, god forbid you two decided to do anything, you can already imagine the reaction of your parents. Then again cousins make dozens...but she is 2 yrs older than you, she shouldn't be takin advantage of you like that.

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