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Does my best friend actually like me, or am I being played?

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Question - (11 May 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, *haeshaeb writes:

okay so, i took my best friend to a concert. and he is eightteen im sixteen, durring the concert he kept holding my hand. i liked it, i almost made a move but i got nervous. so i didnt. when my mom picked us up from the concert we sat in the back of the car and he layed his head on my sholder and i layed my head on his, and i had just fallen asleep when he started kissing my cheek, and than being wierd as he is, he licked my face. i smiled and wiped it off and layed my head back down when all of a sudden he pulles my head tward him and he kisses me. this was akward cus it was my first kiss and i didnt know what to do. he kissed me for a second when i pulled away, i appologized for me not having any skill. after that he held my hand and whraped his arm around my waste and just held me.

do u think he likes me? if so ready for the shoking part?? ive known him for 3 years and found him to be a player, but ive never seen him play THIS GOOD.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (12 May 2012):

CindyCares agony aunt Perhaps he did not disrespect your mom. But he disrespected you. What kind of a guy sneaks behind a parents back to cop an half asleep quick feel ( or face suck ) ,just like an afterthought on his way home ?...

Let's say , a very lukewarm guy, at least. You were conveniently close by- that's probably all. It sure is not as if he had asked you out for a real date, or actually said he likes you, or courted you in any way is it ?

time will tell, but I bet a tenner against a buck that this is NOT the beginning of your first love story.

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A female reader, shaeshaeb United States +, writes (12 May 2012):

shaeshaeb is verified as being by the original poster of the question

first off my mom has met him, she thought he was really nice and actualy thought he was gay. after we took him home my mom said you shoulda kissed him. she was not diss respected at all she actualy wanted us to kiss and shit so _ charizard chick, think about this and than reply.

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A female reader, Deagan United States +, writes (11 May 2012):

Deagan agony auntThis happened in the back seat while your mother was driving? Did she say anything? Why did he think it was okay to do that with your mom there?

I don't think that was a very appropriate thing to do. That was disrespectful to you and your mother. With that said, I do not think he is very good boyfriend material.

Sounds like he is a player. He would do that to his supposed best friend? What happened to nice guys telling the girl they like them and asking them out on a date? Instead he just went ahead and sucked on your face? I'm sorry that that was your first kiss experience.

Think twice about pursuing anything with this "best friend" of yours. His actions did not show that he likes you and wants to treat you well. Given his history of playing people in the past, it's better to play safe than sorry.

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