| A
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: My wife and I a wonderful relationship. She normally reached orgasm very quickly. She says that if we have too much foreplay, she loses the ability to have an orgasm or her orgasm is not very intense even with a vibrator. Is this common? I always thought that the longer the foreplay, the better the orgasm. Would like to know how women feel about this.Thanks
View related questions:
foreplay, orgasm, vibrator Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the great answers. I must have been thinking more about what turns me on than what turns her on.
A
female
reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 I think Lazy Guy gave the perfect answer here- whose opinion matters here? Look, I think she just may be telling you that too much stimulation can have the opposite effect of what's intended. She may just be getting numb. Let her guide you when it comes to her pleasure; all you'll learn from other women is what pleases other women. What pleases your wife? That's the right question.
Have fun figuring it out!
...............................
A
male
reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 Who would know better, your wife or another woman?
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): Have you tried delayed gratification?
Bring her near to the point of orgasm, then stop. Mildly stimulate her but don't let her achieve release - keep her on the boil!
Slowly bring her close to the point again, but withhold satisfaction, allow a refractory period and start to build again.
After as long as she can stand of this (maybe an hour?), tell her to get ready and go for it; and then you go in with all guns blazing, stimulating her in any way you can....breasts, nipples, clit, g-spot, anus - and wait for the explosion!
...............................
A
female
reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (29 July 2009):
 I think it comes down to the individual women. For some the more foreplay, the bigger chance of a multiple orgasm.
If it works better for YOUR wife with less, then by all means do less. :)
...............................
|
