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female
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30-35,
*arfo
writes:so a couple of weeks ago I met this girl. I have an account on one of these LGBT community sites and occaisonally I get random messages from lesbians or bi girls who mainly live in the same region coincidentally lol and we like talk once or twice but they're never my type and it never goes anywhere or theyr'e not very interesting even as friends etc. honestly sometimes I just respond out of courtesy.But a couple weeks ago This girl, lets call her jenny messages me, and instead of it being really dull and boring e.g "hi, hey, how r u? gd, u? gd, ok brb...end of chat and of all future chats" we actually clicked and she seemed interesting and fun, so I got her msn, it's been a couple of weeks, now I have her facebook too.thing is I've really come to like her as much as you can like someone you haven't met in person, I quit smoking for her, she's beautiful, wonderfully wierd, fun, unique, incredibly talented, original, funny, sweet, and kind. We don't really flirt much and maybe thats a good thing, but it's kind of other stuff that makes me wonder if she sees, or could see me like that.The first time I talked to her, we talked till 3 in the morning, even though she planned on going to bed by midnight to wake up early. When I said I skated, the next time she told me that because of talking to me she had started skating again. The second time she talked to me she suggested we meet up after we "get to know each other better". she lives in the next town. Thats never happened to me before with just friends. it was a year and a half before i mentioned meeting up with my friend mike. and the same for another friend. When I talk to Jenny it's not like talking to most people, it's not awkward or forced, I feel like I can be myself, because we have a lot of the same interests. Last night we talked for almost 9 hours. mostly she starts our chats, and it was her that messaged me first. usually I find that girls who do are interested in me and on the few times i've messaged someone first, they weren't interested in me, and our conversations didn't even go anywhere. Also last night I told her I don't like asking most people about something but with her I feel comfortable. she asked if that was a hint, I don't know whether she meant about me liking her or about me wanting to ask her about the thing.Does it sound like she might be interested in me?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Yes i would say she is interested in you, my advice would be to meet soon and see if you click in person and if so it looks like there is a good chance for a relationship as you two clearly get on very well, i hope all goes well and im confident it will! =]
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reader, theaboo  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Yes! It def sounds like she is! Maybe she doesn't even realize it.. but it sounds like you have a great, solid foundation for a really healthy, loving relationship! Chances are she is feeling the exact same way you are- and is probably also scared to bring it up! However, until you meet in person.. don't bring up liking each other. If after you meet her, you're connection is still unforced and really seeming to click.. then you have your answer! Congratulations on finding someone you can be yourself around :)
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