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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really like this girl and have done for a while now but the thing is shes one of my friends girlfriend. he isn't that good of a friend either. i was talking to her last night via facebook and i was talking to my best friend as well who also knows her. she told me that i was a good person to talk to and she was telling me about her relationship with my "friend" about that he acts differently at college than with her and she doesn't like it. she even told me that she didn't want to be with him anymore.meanwhile my best friend was telling me that she wasn't talking to him about her relationship problems with our "friend" but she was telling me that i was a really nice person and we do flirt a bit. she always puts hello you :) or something like that and always a :) at the end. we see each other everyday just about as she goes past on the bus everymorning and we smile and wave at each other which always makes my smile and makes my daydoes it sound like she likes me and wants to be with me? and what should i do if it sounds like she does?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 It could actually just be possible that this girl thinks you are a nice guy and she trusts you with her problems. I dont think you should do anything here, she is in a relationship and you know her boyfriend. Even if he is not the closest of friends to you, you would still be in the wrong here no matter what. So stop flirting with her and just stick to general talk so that it wont come back to bite you if her boyfriend finds out that you are trying to steal his girlfriend.
At the end of the day if she is unhappy in the relationship well then she should end it and then she is free to do as she likes. But she may only be looking for attention here from you so just be careful. If she does end up single well then you should go ahead and tell her how you feel, but for now you should accept that she is someone elses girlfriend and respect that.
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