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writes:ok so i've asked this before but it's a little different i think now.. ok well tonight i went down on my gf for the the like second time and she got off to it.. but um fingering her she says still gets her no where and she even said it kinda made her have to pee.. but she did say that she hasn't has a period since she got out of treatment for an eating disorder about which was in february.. could that have anything to do with it or am i doing something wrong still.. i can feel the "g-spot" area when i finger her but she saids that's what makes her have to pee.. could her eating disorder maybe have made it to where she can't feel anything in there or an i just really crappy now at fingering bc i've always been told it was freakin amazing but my gf is a big challenge.. so the question is.. what is wrong with her VAGINA or what is wrong with me? lol thanks yall
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): The eating disorder has nothing to do with it. I think it's quite simply that she just doesn't enjoy fingering. Not everyone does, just cause your previous partners have liked it doesn't mean this one will. Don't pressure her to enjoy it if she's just not that into it.
And for the record, the clitoris creates much more pleasure than the g-spot so try concentrating there more.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 There is nothing wrong with either of you but what works on one girl wont work on another as we are all different. Maybe she doesnt really enjoy it and is tensing up. Talk to her about it and ask her to guide you whilst doing it to see if you can find the right spot. If not accept you may have to find another way to pleasure her x
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (15 May 2008):
 Her eating disorter has nothing to do with it, but I can see why you'd ask, as it would effect her menstration. But thats it as far as "down there". Some girls are just not in to certain foreplay. Fingering does very little for me, but clitoral play is FANTASTIC! Every one is different. If you can live without fingering her, and she dosnt care for it, find something else to do with her that she enjoys and master it!!!
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reader, loveless_lady +, writes (15 May 2008):
The feeling of having to pee is normal. Usually, for me, when I have the feeling like I have to pee, that means that I'm being satisfied quite well.
Has your girlfriend done this before you? Maybe she's still shy about it all and unsure of the whole thing?
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reader, angel of love  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 Okay...not exactly the question I usually encounter but none the less I'll give you my point of view. My ex-bf had sort of the same issue with his gf...he says that technically that "g-spot" is where a girl pees from. So it's logical that it makes her need to pee. But in my experience I think you need a bit more experience in that area. A certain way to finger may be good for one girl but lame dfor another. Plus you shouldn't air out your girl's disorders to the world. That's kinda f'ed up.
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