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female
age
26-29,
*ngel amy
writes:Hi, so i'm in a relationship with this lad about 100 miles away, and i go to where he lives about 7 times a year and love him so much. Ive always liked him for two years but never thought we could have a relationship, as when i have asked in the past he ahs always been like either 'your too young' (when i was 15) or 'the distance is too much'. Now when i went up in april, he was really nice to me and spent everyday with me, and things moved fast. In May, i ended up loosing my virginity to him, (i am 16 btw and he is 19), and the last time i went up there last week we had sex again. I felt like i didn't want to just be used for sex so i asked him are we going out or what? and he said, i suppose we are yeh, and i sked him again and he said yeh we cn if you want. That just makes me think he's not that bothered? So now im with him and i am home for 48 days until i see him again so i miss him. But he is not texting me at all unless i text first, and even then he sounds a bit off with me sometimes. He always used to text first and say sweet things but now its like he's not even bothered. Why? Do you think he wants a relationhip or just wants the sex?
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reader, xIsabella.Harryx +, writes (20 June 2010):
I'm really sorry hun but i'd say he's just after sex. i can tell you're not stupid as you already know he doesn't sound genuine. He's 19 so i gather he's out with his mates drinking and has a completely seperate life which doesn't involve you. i really doubt he's going to stay faithfull, only seeing you once every 6 weeks. if he wanted a reationship he'd be making the effort to come down and see you...
if i were you i'd forget about this guy, because as much as you like him, you will forget he ever existed! it's not fair on him stringing you along, he's a (nearly) grown man and i know what it's like to be 16 and in love. walk away before he hurts you, and find someone closer to home that want's to get to know you for who you are before you sleep with them x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 June 2010):
All he wants is sex. If he wanted anything more than sex, he would have made far more effort. Men are more predictable like that. If we want a woman for more than just sex, there will always be more effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): Sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): Just wants sex, he is a bloke. Sure he doesnt have someone else ?
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female
reader, xanthic  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 He just wants sex. If it was more than that, he would still be making an effort to keep in touch.
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