A
female
age
26-29,
*racyPrinces
writes:I've liked this guy for several years, I've known him since nursery and we have been good mates but throughout the years gradually in YEAR 5 I noticed I started liking him and my feelings kept growing deeper until my mate started started sending him emails saying she likes him, she told me about this, this hurt even more so I kept crying myself to sleep. I got jealous and felt hurt.They both started going out not long after, that hurt even more because he was going out with my mate and I liked him a lot, I even knew him longer, I confronted my mate about how I feel, she ignored everything I said and didn't want to be mates with me anymore, I accepted because I couldn't handle her always talking about him and what they do together, but she rubbed in the fact she's going out with him. She'll always do somthing to make me jealous even more. Then throughout the year I tried telling him that I liked him but then my mate kept on taking him away from me, she wouldn't even let me look at him.At last the year ended and I was happy at least I wouldn't see them together, then the holidays finished and I was in year 6, I still liked him and I even tried not looking at him but I just couldn't handle it at all, the amount of times he looked at me in that year made it even harder for me to forget him but I knew it was impossible but I tried. Then I found out my mate and he have broken up, I was over the moon and really happy. I was ready to tell him about how I felt, but I found out my other mate liked him and I got more and more angry, it started turning into a joke, but this time I didn't care and I talked to him and tried getting on with him and it worked but I still didn't know if he liked me, I was too shy to ask him or tell him how I felt. Sometimes I did try, I waited and waited and all I got was smiles and him staring at me which was cute though to me, and the more he stared at me the more shy I got and I couldn't tell him how I feel, but it seemed like he liked me. The year was over and I found out my other mate liked him and was going to tell him but she never, they say she told him I was standing right next to my mate and he kept on smiling. I was confused who he was smiling at, I never told anyone about me liking him and then I went to secondary school and still liked him and saw him on the way to school sometimes. He always looked at me, and I always did to now I'm in year 8 and I still like him! This year he done the same thing just stared at me, eg I was walking to school and he went past me I pretended noone was there and I looked slightly back and he looked back, which made me wonder does he like me or not? Please help can you tell me if he likes me or has any feelings for me? How can I tell him how I feel? Everytime I try I'm scared he might say no. But then i am to shy to ask him, even though we known each other for a very long time. When it comes to asking him i really get shy even though i talk alot. What can i do? Do you think he has any feelings for me at all?
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reader, thedude77793 +, writes (19 August 2007):
yes it sounds like he does like you but is to shy to say it incase you say no or he doesn't want o risk ruining your friendship
so i think that you should take chance and ask him out but at first talk to him ask him to go the movies as mates hang out take it from there.
if you don't you will always wonder what if and regret not taking the chance. theres a chance that he might says no but if he says yes at least you know you tried.
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