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26-29,
*racyPrinces
writes:Hi,My mate likes this guy and she wants to tell him that she likes him and she thinks he likes her because the way he responds but she don't know for sure, the guy she likes aint making it clear for her and she keeps getting upset. Sometimes his mates say nasty things I told her to move on so she tried, all the boys she knows are just mates so I helped her finding someone nice and kind and her type. I found someone and she even knew this person but not really well. Everyone say's he's nice, even I thought that until the other day he got a background check on my mate and most of the things that were added in the background check were personal and he started taking the piss and swore and said some really bad stuff which were really hurtful to her. I tried phoning her and she won't pick up so I went down to her house she locked herself in her room she aint been in contact with anyone at all and I'm worried in case she does somthing she regrets, what can I do so she gets back to normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): Hi Hunny,
You are both so young this kind of situation will happen so many times, You have to tell your friend not to take this kind of stuff to heart, be there for her love, she will I imagine come out of her room at some point.
The guys of your age and even older are the teasing type they do it constantly it a big laugh for them and they dont even think about it untill the next time..
If you dont let there banter affect you and give some back they wont do it so often, they are lads up for a laugh cruel I no I was your age ones..
Tell her to let the nasty stuff just go over her head and take no notice, she being in her room and not going out isnt going to make any difference to the way they behave they are probably doing it to someone else daft little gits..TAKE CARE HOPE EVERYTHING GOES OK LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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