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writes:I like going to the gym because the stronger I get I feel like I have more confidence. It gives me something to talk about and now some girls I know are like wow you love the gym and that kind of stuff. I am considering taking dbol which is a extreme wait gainer supplement (schedual III drug) and this will also help me for football. I already have done a years worth of research and know someone my age shouldn't take this stuff but I am already tall so Im not worried about it.I am afraid people will notice my weight gains in muscle mass and I am not sure how this will affect my relationship I want to start with this girl. my question is if we use to hang out a lot and she thought I was strong and cut do you think she will notice if I am another 20 lbs bigger?I love her but were not talking right now because she wants to be with this other guy and it hurts. Weight lifting is my relief and a way for me to focus. I am worried that when we do or if we do ever hang out again she will notice that I am 20 pounds heavier and she will think something is up.Confidence helps with talking to girls and dating and I feel that this will help me gain that confidence. Football will be another way as well but im not sure...thanks for the help
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (5 June 2011):
 Go to the gym, work your ass off and stay away from any drugs. If you gain muscles the "natural" way it can overall benefit you.
Be who you are, getting more fit is a good way to feel more confident.
Will she notice? Maybe, but I doubt any girl will see it as a problem that a guy is fit. However, the drugs.. a turn off for sure.
There is a GOOD reason why you shouldn't take them and you know it.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 She'll probably notice, but isn't that the entire point? If you don't want to look big, then don't get big. You can still work out without looking like a body builder, so try to keep things natural and good looking, instead of boosting yourself up like some balloon. You're right, kids your age shouldn't be taking supplements of this kind, or ruin their still growing bodies with weights and pushing their bodies to the limit. You do know that you are putting extra strain on your body, and it might not have a negative effect now, but in 10 years time there might be.
Don't go over the top. Stay moderate in your workouts and stay moderate with the weights. And if you don't want to look too big, well then DON'T try to get too big either.
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