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writes:I just came from a trip a week ago from Europe and this guy with whom I have a crush, told me before I left that he knows I would enjoy my trip but just don't have too much fun!He ended the message saying to take care and I'll talk with you soon!Now that I wrote to him because I'm back and sent him some pictures, he said the pics are very beatiful and that he hoped I'd enjoyed it for both of us.A month before that he sent me a picture of him, looking very handsome and he posted a phrase that confuses me a little, he said "How about that hat?"He had told me now, that he's on a business trip himself, so I asked if could write to him while away, because I wanted to keep in touch with him, and he said that he'll be very busy but if he has a chance he'll write but will definitely be in touch at his return.I like him, but I don't know if he likes at least a litte or he's just being polite.He has a very demanding job, so I email him and everytime I do, he replies right away, almost inmediately!Do you think he likes to flirt with me or is it just normal conversation? How you identify if someone is flirting or just friendly?
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reader, Collaroy  + ♥, writes (31 March 2008):
 Hi,
I am of the opinion that no single guy maintains a new friendship with a girl unless there is some sexual connection. This is from a guys perspective and I know of no guys (straight ones anyway) who would engage you like this unless they were interested.
So its up to you two guys now. But just a word of advice, try not psychoanalyse everything, if there is one thing that puts a guy off in a new relationship is a girl saying "why did you say that..?" or "what did you mean by that?" ( its the sure fire way to guarantee lack of contact in the future ). We men like to think we can make the girls we fancy laugh, sometimes things come out which are just stupid.
Good luck.
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (30 March 2008):
 Whether this guy is flirting or being friendly, he sounds unavailable. This could be because he is involved with someone else or truly just busy with his job. Either way, his priorities don't include you right now. It sounds like you have more room for a relationship in your life at this time and are willing to make someone a priority so I wouldn't hold my breath on this one...not to say that it can't be a future prospect but I wouldn't have any expectations of him at this time. I would keep emailing him, see if he initiates anything (responding to your emails is okay, it's definitely a positive, but it's not pursuing you)and if he doesn't initiate, I would assume his interest level is not that high. In the meantime, just have fun and date other people. Good luck.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 If I'm totally honest it doesn't sound like he is flirting with you, there's no suggesting anything else in his conversation, no reading between the lines...I would just take it as he likes you and is friendly.
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