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writes:Ok heres my problem me and my boyfriend have been in a 7 month relationship and i think he the one..so i gave it up to him, but here the thing he did the poke-meaning he went in and then out in and then out we didnt have a condom so iam worryed.But we didnt do like the whole 30 mins we did it for about 6 mins.and i asked him what he thinks and he told me he didnt leak or the sperm didnt come out....do guys know when there spearm is about to come out or is just lieing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): Yes we get a tingly feeling in our body which makes us want to go harder or some might want to stop if its their first time.
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reader, Deco  +, writes (15 November 2009):
Ye we Know when we Sperm, we get a tingly feeling through our Penis and then we feel warmth coming out. Lol
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reader, bigs +, writes (18 October 2009):
hes lying because it will feel good when it comes out
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): When the sperm is about to come the boy feels some itchy in his cock .
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUmmm yes i know iam learning about sex much more and trying to understand it. My bf has been a big help in helping me he never told me to do anything and he never would tell me to..I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH IN THE LONG RUNN and hes been a big help!!!111
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (21 August 2008):
 I am happy for you. I hope that you've become wiser now about protecting yourself and understanding the importance of sex education. You can always stop having sex too, until you're older, you don't need to do it to stay cool or keep the guy. Okay? Good luck in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIAM NOT pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): That depends on the definition of 'mean'. Tight with money or just plain 'orrible.
Tell you what, have a think about any other questions you might like to ask and put them all together in one post and put it all on the questions page for everyone to answer, otherwise this thread could go on forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUMMMM HOw does a guy know not to be mean???
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): It won't feel any different at all. It might smell a little different for a day or two, that's all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioniam sorry mistake will i feel any diffenet like my body will it feel any diffferent?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso your telling me my body wont change but will it feel any different???...
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 August 2008):
To answer your most recent question, no, your body will not change nor should it feel different. However, being stressed and worrying a lot may create the idea that it has.
If you're really worried about being pregnant, go buy a test and read and follow the instructions.
Thanks for the follow up. Do you think you'll be a bit wiser in your actions now? It's very important for your future to be sensible about this, even though it's not easy in the heat of the moment.
Take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk i know i made a mistake, but here another question,do girls body change or feel different after having sex??
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (15 August 2008):
 First of all, a guy doesn't have to ejaculate in order to release sperm. I've no idea where the 30 minutes enters into the picture. The only way to guarantee that you won't ever get pregnant (unless you've had surgery) is to abstain from sex completely. I don't mean to be harsh, but what are the benefits of having sex? It feels good... but is it worth the consequences? If you were to get pregnant, how would it impact your future? is it worth it? I'm not trying to be mean, but sometimes when we're young, we don't think about the possible consequences of our actions because we're caught up in the moment... and when we suffer the consequences, we wish and wish we could go back and time and fix it. You guys shouldn't be having sex, but having sex with no condom is asking for trouble.For your peace of mind, and physical health, I would go to your parents and tell them the truth. Your mom could take your doctor, who could tell you the facts about contraception, and about sexuality. If you don't have a big brother, I hope your dad teaches this guy a lesson. I have the feeling that he pressured you into this for his own pleasure. Think of your health, and your future, and learn the facts!!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 August 2008):
Whoops! Here's the link to the video.
http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
I learned a lot watching this and before I did I thought I was well-educated in contraception and sexual health! Boy, was I wrong...
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 August 2008):
He's either lying or he's ignorant of the facts of life. Either way, you're the one who's going to get pregnant if you keep having unprotected sex. He doesn't have to go through 9 months of pregnancy for 6 minutes of unprotected fun. The trade off isn't worth it, what do you think?
Look, your body is physically maturing, but that doesn't mean your mind and your reasoning have caught up with it. If you're going to be sexually active, you need to get smart about it. I personally think you're too young, but you might as well get the facts.
Watch this video on how pregnancy occurs.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-a-guy-had-cum-on-his-fingers.html
Then tell your mother that you would like to see a gynecologist so that you can start off your sexual health history on a positive note. You should consider telling your mother that you would like to get the vaccine against certain strains of HPV now, so that you might be protected from certain forms of cervical cancer. If you're adult enough to be having sex, then you're adult enough to fess up to your mother about it. At least she'll be able to help you see the doctor and may have some boring motherly words of wisdom. But wisdom it is, and you are not the first and will not be the last girl who starts having sex without having all the facts.
I suggest you spend some time reading about contraception, sexually transmitted diseases and how to take care of yourself. You can start at plannedparenthood.org; there's a section there for teens and it explains a lot very clearly.
Don't rely on horny 15 year old boys for accurate knowledge of sex and pregnancy. Also don't rely on them to keep quiet about their sex lives with their friends. Boys talk, and his friends probably know a lot about what's been happening in bed between you two.
If you spend a little time on this site looking at pregnancy questions from teenage girls, you'll realize that some of them actually do get pregnant and have to make some very difficult decisions, all life-altering. Why risk all that for 6 minutes of poking?
Good luck, I expect that it's not probable that you're pregnant, but it is possible. Remember how you're feeling right now the next time you get caught up in the heat of the moment.
For now, I would advise you NOT to have sex until you have ALL the facts. Sorry for being so harsh, but I'm thinking about your mother and how she would like you to have the best possible future. Take good care of yourself. You have your whole life ahead of you, so there's no need to rush into things you're not fully prepared for.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (15 August 2008):
 You could very possibly be pregnant. As Uncle Phil says, you should go buy a pregnancy test kit from the local pharmacy as soon as possible. Given your age (and apparent lack of knowledge), you're really best off not having sex at all. But, if you are going to do it, ALWAYS use contraception. Imagine having to go to your parents tomorrow (after the test) and having to tell them you are pregnant...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): He'd most likely be unaware of any 'leakage', but there's also a good chance that there were a few million sperm inserted into you as soon as he got it in. It only takes one of them to do the trick, and you're right to be worried.
If you're lucky, you'll get away with it this time, but if he 'does the poke' again make sure he's got a condom on to contain the little wrigglers.
Another thing - you may not think so, but you're still a bit young for this sort of thing if you have to ask questions like this! Get him to buy you a pregnancy test kit from the pharmacy - it might concentrate his mind.
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