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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:he is at band camp and can't talk to me very much but i wait on his calls (once a day maybe) and so i suggested through voicemail a break until he gets home ... that was two days ago... now he won't talk to me ... what do i do? what are the rules for a break? i left him a voicemail after blowing up his phone with texts the voicemail said since he won't talk to me i guess he wanted the break but i was sorry for everything and i guess we are on a break but i care deeply for him and want to be together ... i am so scared of this ... i have trust issues but i don't wanna hold that against him and i have acted happy even though on the inside i am screaming for the two months weve been dating ... it all came out now ... while he is at band camp ... and now he can't talk to me so i assume were on a break bc the last he heard we were and now won't talk to me ... so i left a voicemail saying we definatley were until he told me different ... what do i do i don't want to lose him ....
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (15 August 2008):
 Honey, why did you do such a silly thing?.
My guess is that you didnt like him being away, so you tried to force the issue by the threat of breaking up and it back-fired.
You cannot take it back, but you can leave him alone until he gets back and then talk to him. Maybe he will have calmed down by then. He is probably sulking over what you said.
Just take it easy and do some things with your mates while he is away.
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