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writes:If a man has been nothing but disrepsectful for most or all of his years, (since puberty to say) do you truly believe they could see women than more than boobs and ass? Do you believe a man could change and accept a woman properly if theyve had this attitude? What do you believe about change in views/attitude?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2012): "do you truly believe they could see women than more than boobs and ass?"
Doesn't matter, that question is complete irrelevancy OP because if I was a woman I wouldn't hang around to find out nor have a guy like that in my life.
"Do you believe a man could change and accept a woman properly if theyve had this attitude?"
Another completely irrelevant question because whether a man or woman "can" change, I would never be a with a person who needs changing. They're either a person worthy of being with now or they're not. I don't see any reason to live my life based on hopes and dreams, just the reality of the now.
"What do you believe about change in views/attitude?"
In this context I think they're a very shitty reason to be with someone. I don't care that people can change. It's not my job to change them, it's my job to take care of myself and keep poisonous idiots out of my life.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2012):
No, I don't believe it. Teenagers have an excuse to treat people badly at times, and teenage boys and girls have an excuse to make mistakes and see the opposite sex in bizarre ways!! A teenage boy is developing in his mind, and therefore won't always be tactful, or nice about girls.
Once the teen grows into a man, however, he doesn't have an excuse. He's a grown man, and he should be viewing a woman as a woman, and not just as a piece of meat. If a man still view a woman as a piece of meet by this time, then chances are he is a very bad bet and won't ever mature.
If there is a guy you like who hasn't grown up and only sees woman as 'ass', then avoid him, because he will break your heat.
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reader, lostinlovesoldier  +, writes (29 September 2012):
As a man I can say it is been different with different women. With some women it is just a physical attraction...always will be. It could keep a man around for a long time but that is all it will ever be. Other times a man can meet a woman and not even noticed her physical attributes (right away that is) because he is so captured by HER. so it is hit or miss...honestly you should want a man who enjoys both...but if a man is only about tits and ass...he ain't the one. Maturity does play a huge part in this. Every guy will always like a woman's features...but a mans willingness to look deeper as well is what a girl needs to find.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (29 September 2012):
 It's pretty hard to teach someone who believes an entire class of people are not human, that they are human.
A sexist man believes women are not human. You don't want to waste your life trying to convince him that you are.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 September 2012):
 I believe someone can change as they get older yes. They may grow up looking at women as nothing but a piece of meet but they then might meet someone and realise there is more to them than that, also it might take a person longer to mature and accept that women should be treated with respect.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (29 September 2012):
 It depends, on the man and the women who have been around him.
If he dates women who will "allow" this, I don't see he would feel a need to change. And most likely a guy like that knows EXACTLY how to pick a woman who at least for a while accept his behavior.
If his taste run in a different type "strong sense of self" woman, he might HAVE to modify his behavior.
And there of course there is the chance that he might grow the heck up lol
But I wouldn't touch a man like that with a 10 foot pole in HOPES that he MIGHT change. Life is too short to waste time on that.
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