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She's out of my league. Does she want to be more than friends?

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Question - (6 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This girl I know is way out of my league. Everybody thinks she is seriously hot.

I have noticed her staring at me a lot. When I look over she laughs. It's usually because I'm doing something stupid, but I do notice her staring at me all the time. She says really funny things all the time, and laughs when I say stuff. She wants me to do things with her, and wants me to be her friend.

Could this mean she likes me, or does she just find some things about me funny? I don't know if she wants to just be my friend.

Anyways, I don't know what to do because she is so beautiful, and could get any guy she wants. She literally does get with any guy she wants when she goes out. I don't know why she's wasting time around me. I like being around her and want to be her friend and all, but it's hard trying to be myself when she's so gorgeous. What do I do? I want to tell her I like her so that I don't have to feel so nervous around her, but I don't want to make things awkward if she doesn't like me in that way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010):

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It's been almost a month since I posted this. Thanks for the answers. I think she was trying to be around me because she liked my friend. She got with him in the end.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (7 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYou are feeling intimidated by her beauty. She maybe the most beautiful and gorgeous girl in the world but she is also a human being and have faults and weaknesses too.

Not all attractive women are shallow or judgmental . You need to see what's inside of her and not her outer wrappings.

Just be yourself , be natural, relax , smile often and be confident.Confidence is an attractive quality in a person.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010):

It sounds to me that she likes you and would like to get to know you better and spend time with you. I can't say whether she wants to be just friends or something more, but the first step will be friendship. Then you can see where things go.

But don't let your worries hold you back! Please try to get these thoughts of not being good enough for someone like her out of your head! Honestly, she is human like you, and I'm sure she doesn't have any thoughts like that at all! I guess she makes you feel pretty nervous and your confidence just leaves you. But it really does sound like she genuinely likes being around you, so try and put those insecurites aside. If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't be talking to you. Good luck! x

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