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writes:I have lot of porn dvds at home. My wife rarely watches it. My question is, do all women hate to watch porn or is it some?. If some women like porn what are the categories they like to watch. say, lesbian, taboo, straight, BDSM, oral....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2012): My girlfriend prefers 'erotica', artsy porn. It's far better framed, shot and artistic, the guys are actually attractive model types and not greasy pony tailed weirdos with back acne.
Do a search for some erotica OP, bog standard porn does nothing for my girlfriend it's cheap and tacky. But erotica is sensual.
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (26 May 2012):
 "The purpose of asking this question is to create interest in porn for my wife. Just I wanted to know what are all the type of porn movies women like (In case they like porn) so that I can get such Dvds to create interest in her."
I don't think you can get a porn video that would be perfect for you and your wife. I can tell you right now, what I like to watch to get me off I would never want to watch with my husband. I like blowjobs, I don't know why but I do. I'm not fan of giving them, which is why I find it odd that I like it for porn. But, I would rather watch just straight sex with no fancy things involved when it's with my husband...of course the positions can vary but no BDSM, lesbian/gay, or orgy type of porn.
I would just get one of the movies that are higher quality. There is a porn movie of Pirates of the Carribean. I have heard good things about that one though I have never watched it. Try something like that since it is relatively mild, and would have more of a story. Then, after you have watched it and had your fun together, ask her about the movie. What did she like/dislike? Would she want something more hardcore? See what comes of that. Maybe she will love the first one you pick.
Good luck!
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reader, HappyPlace  +, writes (21 May 2012):
 I hate the stuff but I have watched it in the past. I certainly do not watch it now. It interfered with the intimacy between my partner and I and he's a much better lover when he's not watching porn. It's a commercial product and anyone who likes watching it has fallen for this hook, line and sinker. Perhaps I am a free spirit but I make up my own mind and do not want commercialism shoved down my throat in any form, be it porn, advertising of a certain product, etc. I'd say if you like watching it, I'd seriously check that your sex life is OK, because if you have to add porn to the equation, somebody is not satisfied!!
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (19 May 2012):
 Ask her! Ask her what her fantasies are. Everyone will be different. I personally like bondage & restraint, hentai and a mix of whatever else catches my eye. There are no rules for this. Tell her you want to share this with her and get her input.
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reader, ManjunathBangalore +, writes (19 May 2012):
ManjunathBangalore is verified as being by the original poster of the question The purpose of asking this question is to create interest in porn for my wife. Just I wanted to know what are all the type of porn movies women like (In case they like porn) so that I can get such Dvds to create interest in her. I know individual taste differs. Atleast if I know the taste of some females, then I can get such Dvds and experiment with it.
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (18 May 2012):
lol I have no problem with it being hardcore, it's rather that it is usually just a bit dull or cheesy. It's more laughable than sexy to me :) I would prefer it if it was darker and more hardcore/erotic, but its usually 1)suck cock, 2)fuck in a selection of positions which allow a close up of cock entering vagina and woman's tits, 3)woman moans as though she's never had sex before 4)guy cums on her face/mouth/tits.
Just doesn't really do much for me! Sorry...
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX +, writes (18 May 2012):
 I like porn, and on occasion watch it. I don't really have a particular category but I mainly watch straight, sometimes lesbian, never just 2 guys though. I'm open to watching most things though at least once :)
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reader, ManjunathBangalore +, writes (18 May 2012):
ManjunathBangalore is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy response to BettyBoup's reply. Thanks for your reply. My understanding with respect to your reply is that, if the porn is made as per women's fantasies it may excite some more females. yes I agree that most of the porn are just hard core. yes even to me some of it are disgusting. If a porn is made based on some of our fantasies then it will be much more exciting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2012): I am a woman and I like porn.
I am in a relationship and my bf watches porn in the mornings to 'please himself' whilst I get to sleep in. I watch porn when I am home and he is at work. We probably watch it almost every weekday.
We still have sex on average once every day/two days.
I really do not understand why some women get so upset about it...
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (17 May 2012):
 I don't like porn at all. But I don't all out hate it. I just find it sad that it's such a big business degrading women. I don't watch it, but my husband does from time to time and that is OK with me.
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (17 May 2012):
Well I do like porn, or the idea of porn. But I find it hard to find porn that appeals to me. I think this could be because 99% of porn is made to appeal to men. The camera is fixed on the female more than the man. Also the women in porn are usually more attractive than the men, because guys aren't looking at the bloke when they watch porn, so it only really matters that he has a fairly large penis and has enough stamina for the job. I guess I am quite picky and have a certain type of man that attracts me, and porn star men don't often do it for me. Also it is often male fantasies shown.
Saying this, if I do shop around a bit I can find things that turn me on. I have particular tastes and fantasies, and i'm sure there are other women who like porn who have their own, different tastes. I do think there should be more porn made for women. Women have different fantasies and desires to men and we should be catered for. I think a lot of women don't like porn because they see it as cheating or competition because it sets impossible standards for us to live up to. Whereas I see it as a fantasy to get lost in when I'm feeling horny and I'm single. I used to, and still do have fantasies that turn me on to masturbate to. Porn is just an extension of that. Problem is, my fantasies are much better and more personally satisfying than porn. And when i'm horny I usually can't find any good porn in time. So that's why I don't love porn as much as men seem to!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2012): I am a woman I like gay/lesbian, but I HATE my boyfriend viewing photos of women and watching straight people, they are hotter than me and I can't deal with it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 May 2012):
 Not all women hate porn just like not all women are fat or thin or tall or short. Women are people TOO ya know....
so what they like IF they like porn will vary with each woman as well.
I don't LIKE porn. It is a fact of life with my partner so I accept it. I'll watch it with him but I don't like BDSM, taboo or anything much above mainstream vanilla stuff...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2012): I don't hate porn....I hate when men continue to watch it when they are in a relationship with someone, or have a family, have children, that kind of thing. It's one thing when you are alone or single, but it's another to be viewing and jerking off when you have a real live person to have real sex with and making that a priority.I hate what it does to young boys and their very skewed sense of what sex really is and what they learn from viewing on how NOT to treat a women.I hate that porn is primarily geared for men and that so many men are not strong enough to stay away and become addicted, or put it over their relationship and how many screw them up because of it.I hate where these people come from and how sad it is that they have such horrible pasts that they end up in porn to primarily satisfy....men.I hate that women are constantly told to get over it and just deal and how many give in and accept this thinking it's helping them keep their man around.So, if I am feeling like I want a visual like a man, I would probably watch gay guy porn...and I am a straight as they come female. Maybe there is this underlying enjoyment watching a guy get it up the ass, since so many men watch it on porn and think all women should be doing the same thing for them.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (17 May 2012):
 Around 60% of women don't want it in their relationship, around 25% of women consider it cheating, around 30% watch it at least once a month.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2012): Not all women hate porn, just as not all men love porn. It varies from each individual woman as to what they like to watch. There really is no specific answer to your question sorry.
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