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Do others get caught having sex?

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Question - (10 January 2011) 16 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been caught several times by my parents and my boyfriends parents "messing around"/ foreplay and once having sex, I am so traumatized! Does this happen to a lot of people?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011):

Lock your door. If you don't have a lock, buy one.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011):

You lock the door... or stick a chair in front of it or something. If it doesn't stop them getting in then they will at least realise you dont want anyone to come in before they actually do.

Why has nobody mentioned this yet?!?

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A male reader, ulick Italy +, writes (12 January 2011):

ulick agony auntNope, thanks God!

I moved out when I was 14, first boarding school then university abroad and stayed out of my parents home.

However when I did visit my home I did stay at my parents with gfriends. However for the way I am done, I always had difficulties having sex with my parents at home or brothers in the house.

Probably because I always had a place to have sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011):

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/his-mom-walked-in-on-us-having-sex.html

My question not long back! Your so not alone. Lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for all the responses- I must add that once we were only making out and he had my shirt up and I was on top of him, we thought we were home alone and his parents came home early- his dad made huge deal out of it, I was humilated- we had the door shut every time but they just barge in(no knock). We only mess around in the car now and have sex when no one is home. Another question was have I ever caught my parents doing it and the answer is no. I am the baby in the family therefore I have paid for my siblings mistakes and obviously have no privacy. Last question was do I enjoy the excitement of it, I'm not going to lie, I have messed around with guys while there friends or parents were in the same room or car but extremely careful and quiet, but never sex that's a hard one to hide no pun intended.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (10 January 2011):

dirtball agony auntI had that happen back in the day. It was rather embarassing for everyone involved.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2011):

Thankfully, no. But I'm sure a lot of people have been caught with their pants down a few times. Best thing is not to have sex anywhere where you know your parents will walk in on you.

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A female reader, Abbii_xxx United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2011):

Abbii_xxx agony auntlooool erm yes actually... once having sex in a public place (a table in a gazibo) yer it was late but a couple of people walked past but quickly hurried along :) but apart from that jus alot of my friends have walked in on mee quite a few times actually.. so yer i noo it is definatly embarasing but im the kind of person that finds it quite exiting :) x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011):

Not at your age...

I was gone from home by then, and sex is part of life.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (10 January 2011):

Honeypie agony auntMaybe it's a sign.... to not mess around in your parents house....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011):

No, I've never been caught, but then I left home at 17. You have been caught more than once are you sure you don't like the excitement of it?

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (10 January 2011):

Illithid agony auntAlmost a few times, but always very careful so never actually caught, no.

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A female reader, AshyCole United States +, writes (10 January 2011):

AshyCole agony auntyes ive been caught once by my own parents and once by my boyfriends parents. Im so sorry this happend to you too! you just have to be calm about and if they ask just say "heat of the moment, sorry" and not talk about it and move on haha. thats all you really can do!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011):

No...we close the door, never ever wanted it to happen!

sorry this happened to you.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (10 January 2011):

chigirl agony auntNever happened to me. I rarely have sex at my mothers house though, or any other relative, but the times when I do we lock the doors. That or she will hears us through the wall and she's not bothered by such things.

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A male reader, cupid_1234 United States +, writes (10 January 2011):

cupid_1234 agony auntWell, you need to learn from your parents. Have you caught them having sex ever ;-)

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