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*alrog89
writes: a few months ago started chatting to a lass online, we got on well and chatted for ages, had some problems in my life occur in this time and had too much going on in my head, so i tried to scare her away thinking i was obsessive, it worked she messaged me saying she didnt want to speak to me at all. a few weeks later was out in bar which was empty the lass i used to talk too came to bar and stood right next to me with her mate to my left and her too her mates left, i could feel her looking and glanced then looked away, when they got there drinks the lass i used to talk to kind of took her time moving away from bar and followed her mate.the next day i sent her message saying sorry didnt speak but you asked me not too. never got reply didnt expect one.week later was walking from work and she her outside a shop she was checking me out, she see me looking at her and looked away then back at me then away again i looked away n she stared at me.three weeks went by and i was out in club one night n got pat on shoulder looked around couldnt see who did it then i see the lass i used to speak too, she looked shy, and she was looking at the floor looked up at me smiled n waved a shy wave, she walked past me, and she had her chest sticking out, turned her head it was slightly at angle n she staired right into my eyes n smiled showing her teeth i smiled back n just staired, i was acctually with another lass who was infront of me but the lass i used to speak to would not have seen her. i looked at the lass i was with then back at the lass i used to speak too n she catched onto this n her face dropped she turn her head forward n walked of.later on i see her walking towards us with her head down she looked up see the lass i was with then looked behind her see me n her face dropped to a frown like scowl, n her eyes where moving like left n right, she looked peaved off.i sent her an email but dont know if she got it explaining the lass i was with was a friend and sorry i didnt say hi, i wasnt able to send her message on facebook but now i can.she hasnt replied or said leave her alone, like she did before, but she never replied to the email i sent her i see her before on a friday yet she communicated to me three weeks later on saturday night.dont know what to think of it, or what to do now i quite like her n we did get on ok, not sure if she seeing if i keep ,messaging her like i used to to see if i have changed n am not obsessive any ideas what she may be thinking? or what i sould do, mates recon she will wait till she sees me out again but i know after last time if she wasnt interested she would have messaged me by now? i do think she is shy, n know she as small 3 year old daughter, and lives on her own, and dont get out much
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reader, balrog89 +, writes (22 December 2008):
balrog89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive explained to her .the problem is she aint responded by email or anything but she aint said go away. she never replyed last time, but 3 weeks later she says hi n does all that in the club like she likes me. i dont know what am to do, maybe when she sees me out again she will say hi, she has small daughter so she prob busy aswell. when i used to txt her she never used to text much so maybe she prefers to meet in person, she dont go on the dating site much but did the sunday after i see her sat
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): My advice is to take time and write down all the things you want to tell her. Read it out loud, edit, and repeat until you feel confident in giving her the letter you have composed; but, don't give it to her. Write her you feel uncomfortable about how youdrifted her apart and let her know that you want to straighten out your side of the story. Ask her if she wants you to explain it. If she says yes, you can give her the letter. If she says no, print out a copy of the letter and burn it or do whatever you need to do to the letter to help you let it go.
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reader, TannedDoll  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 Just be honest :) That's all I can suggest you. Don't lie because lies lead to more lies. And at the end you'll just end up with loads and loads of lies. They will find out one day.
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