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*illie2008
writes:hello ! Do Guys Actually Pay More Attention to Girls Looks ? 90% of men go for skinny girls with nice looks so guys answer one question what do skinny girls have what big girls dont ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Fatherly Advice  + ♥, writes (24 December 2008):
 Eyes,
Snicker, I do like having a lower center of gravity.
I read, way back when I was a teen, a beauty advice article. It recommended a 5 minute shower each day in tepid water. At that point I decided that girls who worry too much about looks ruin their attitudes with self induced torture. Or as Psych said "Not relaxed enough".
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (22 December 2008):
 Girls fall into about 4 catagories for me: Skinny, Healthy (ie, slim), Big, and OMFG THAT'S A BEACHED WHALE (which we will refer to as "Really Big")From my 16 years of experiance, I tend to find that Really Big girls have a tendency to be overly-aggressive and rude. This may have resulted from their weight problems, or perhaps from the nasty comments they no doubt recieve all day. This aside, I (personally) find that there is something decidedly unattractive in "fat," and in having to watch someone eat incomprehensible amounts of food.I find that Skinny is slightly "weird." If you brush past a Skinny girl, you sort of get the feeling "Oh God, careful, else she'll break." It's bizzare. Plus, skinny girls tend to be skinny for a reason: they dont want to end up in the Really Big section. There is, of course, the chance that they might simply be naturally thin. Still, I dont particularly find Skinny girls attractive. It sort of sends the signal: "I like to keep a really strict eye on my weight." Not relaxed enough for me, I'm afraid.Big Girls and Healthy Girls are good. Thumbs up from me. Perhaps leaning more toward the slimmer, Healthy catagory, but either is "acceptable" (for want of a better word). They tend to have just the right amount of curve, or sway to their walk. To the caveman in all men, their attractive figure is one of a healthy mate, who can help in reproduction and cope with the proccess. On a more modern level, they tend to show a more relaxed nature, and a more active lifestlye.To answer your question (replacing Skinny with Slim, lol), it's really not what Big Girls dont have, rather than what they have too much of. Curves.Assuming, from the tone of your question, that you feel that you fall into the Big Girl catagory (and if I'm wrong, then I'm very sorry: I must have misread it), and have been passed over by some guy because of it, then I wouldnt worry too much. Looks count for nothing if the girl within the curves is a horrible person. If you concentrate more on showing guys what YOU want THEM to see (ie, the person you really are underneath your appearance), rather than what you think THEY want to see, you'll start moving forward.Sorry if this offended you or any other's out there reading this
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 December 2008):
 A lower center of gravity?
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (22 December 2008):
What do skinny girls have that big girls don't?
1) snippy attitudes
2)Conceit
3)Self Confidence
only number 3 is attractive
While we are on the subject What do Tall Guys have that Short guys don't?
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reader, MetalMan +, writes (22 December 2008):
 i dont know where your quoting your statistics from but i'm sure that they're wrong. guys like girls that look like women, thats why for example lads mags use models that DONT have the super model look coz tradidional fasion models dont appeal to men as much. but on the other hand a girl that is too big is genrally a turn off (with some exeptions of like fetishist etc) because guys like girls to look healthy so grossly obece girls wont appeal either. on another note girls percception of thier bodies is also differnt from how guys see them so even if you think your "too fat" most guys will probably think that you arn't. GUYS LIKE CURVES!! but all of the above is only a general thing so no matter what you look like there will be many many many many people out there who think you look wonderfull, beautyfull, fabulous, and gorgous so be proud of what you look like coz you do look good
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reader, nitros +, writes (22 December 2008):
 heyah XD
In my view looks do affect who you go for but I dont think someone is ugly because there big or if someone is really skinny. You can be beautiful if your big/small/tall/short/black/white etc, any of these things. so in my opinion they dont really have anything over big girls =D
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