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Do I love him for the sex?

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Question - (11 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This guy that Im talking to, isnt my bf, but i call him my boo. we have been talking for over a yr now, and my feelings for him are really strong. i more then just like him, in fact im in love with him. well i think i am. i think of him all the time and only ever wanna be with him. but when i think of him at times, i just think of how great the sex is. so what i want to know is if the attraction between him and i, is more of a sexual one? am i falling for him or is it just the sex? and what do i do about it, if he doesnt give it to me when i need it, should i get it from somebody else? (trust me, i know how that sounds) plsz help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009):

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but i always find myself really sad after an argument. i even cry sometimes. like right now, he basically told me we could neva be together. it hurts me so much to know that. i cant stop thinking about him and i cant stop crying. im so confused.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

When he doesn't give you sex, don't go anywhere else. That will leave you feeling very empty and unhappy. It sounds like you fancy this guy for sex and that's about it. Maybe you should stop with him and actively searchfor a guy who you love and want to be with for more than just sex.

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