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Could I not be a virgin any more because of getting fingered too hard?

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Question - (11 October 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys, well I have quite a straight forward question, well a while ago a got fingered by a guy, and well afterwards I was really sore and my vagina felt like it was burning, and so I had a look and it looked like it was bleeding but the blood wasn't coming from inside me it was like on the inside lips of my vagina and it was really sore...He really pulled it and fingered me really hard...I was just wandering what was it? Did he break the skin which means I lost my virginity? Could I not be a virgin any more because of that?

Please help!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009):

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I'm 15 nearly 16 just so you know

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009):

Well your question was answered. But let me ask you if you are 13 to 15, why are you letting "some guy" do that to you? You sound as if you don't know much about sex, so you had better do your homework and buy a sex education book or talk to your mother about sex before going any furhter. And you may think about getting a reputation amongst "the guys".

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009):

I think this is the third "Am I a virgin still?" type of question in as many days that I've answered. Anyway, I suggest you search this site to find more information about things, especially before continuing with any type of sexual activity.

However, with regards to your question, you are still a virgin. You did not have intercourse with the guy, as in his penis did not go into your vagina, which would be the only thing that makes you no longer a virgin.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

To lose your virginity, a man has to have sex with you, meaning a penis in the vagina. You're still a virgin.

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