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*Little One*
writes:I really need help!Ive been with my so called boyfriend for 2years now, wll I say "so called" because 9months into the realtionship he told me he had a girlfriend he had been with for 7years!!!I obviously finished with him but some how he wormed his way back in!Since then I have fallen soo deeply in love with him, about 2 months ago she gave birth to their first child!I feel broken and dont know what to do???He is very dominant in our "relationship" and doesnt trust me because i kissed other people whilst we was broken up for a while!I havent been with anybody else but I told him this so he would trust me and know he just uses it against me!He doesnt believe that I havent slept with any1 else and no matter how much I tell him I havent and that he is the only man for me he makes me start to think that I have even though I know I havent!He said to save our relationship I have to tell him the truth that yes I slept with someone but I'm not going to lie and say that because I havent!I do love him, and I dont want to loose him!Please someone help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, *Little One* +, writes (2 October 2008):
*Little One* is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much ladies!!!Backbone is here and im going to stand up 4 myself!!!WAHOO!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 October 2008):
This guy is accusing you of cheating on him because he has a guilty concscience and can't cope with the fact that you are clearly a better human being than him.
Since you aren't bothered that he's clearly abusing your trust and treating you with zero respect then why does it matter if he makes you lie?
You are basically his doormat so do what ever he tells you and get back into the kitchen so he can continue to treat you like crap.
Or you could get a backbone, tell him to shove it and never see him again. Then you can actually get a real man rather than this snivelling excuse for a leach.
Good Luck!! xx
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