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Do guys feel it when a girl orgasms?

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Question - (2 March 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Do guys feel it when a girl orgasms? Do they feel the contractions, or anything else?

Since I'm not a guy, I've wanted to know the answer to this for a long time.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony aunti am a guy and i can say with pure certainty that yes we can feel it and it is great!!!

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A male reader, strat69 United States +, writes (11 July 2010):

I have felt it with some girls quite distinctly. When she is tensing up and getting ready, I would feel everything getting tighter and squeezing more....then when the orgasm happens, I would feel the mucles pulsing and that feeling makes my orgasm start almost every time.

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A male reader, xXRyanXx United States +, writes (8 March 2010):

It depends on the girls PC Muscle and whether or not the guy can tell the difference. If the guy knows the anatomy of the girl then he knows once she's hit orgasm both by feeling and sight.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2010):

Depends on the two people involved, and it also depends on the strength of the orgasm. The more intense the orgasm is, the more tense a woman will be. I've certainly felt it with my girlfriend, but it certainly depends on how intense her orgasm is.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010):

I suspect it depends on the girl.

I've only been with four girls, and only two of them really count. Of those, one was delightfully vocal, but the only time I ever knew for sure that she orgasmed through intercourse was the time she smiled and sighed "both at the same time".

As for the other, the one I've been with the last 25 years, I've never known if she's had one at all. Although I certainly hope so, and goodness knows I've tried.

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (2 March 2010):

Only felt it with one, who was so tight it was hard to get in, and she had crazy muscles... so much so getting into her (she was in her late 20's, not some kid) was a chore. A lot of fun, but it took time...

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (2 March 2010):

person12345 agony auntIt varies from girl to girl and guy to guy and it depends on whether or not he's wearing a condom. If he's not he's more likely to feel it. Also, some girls orgasm through very strong vaginal contractions while others barely contract at all. I know some guys can feel it strong enough that it causes them to orgasm. Likewise there are girls who can feel their guy orgasm strong enough it either turns them on a LOT/makes them "tingle" down there or sets off their orgasm. It really just depends on the person. The best way for a guy to know though is to just tell him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010):

Since I've never done it without a condom, I can only tell by the fact that she'll tense up and scream, and it will feel "slippery" down there. However, I can't feel any contractions.

But, I have fingered my girlfriend before, and I can feel when she has contractions, so I'd assume I could probably feel them without a condom.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (2 March 2010):

The Realist agony auntYes we can feel the contractions whether they be from an orgasm or just when you tense up on purpose during sex. At some point in your life I recommend trying that during sex and judging the guys reactions. He may be really surprised.

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