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Did you ever have someone you were close to and now you don't talk to them at all?

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Question - (21 November 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2012)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi all,

I was just wondering if you had someone in your life you were pretty close to but at somepoint due to some circumstances had to stop talking and now you don't even acknowledge that person!?

I do have,and I just want to know if they r people out there as well!?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2012):

I've never had that happen to me, where you simply don't even acknowledge them when they are right there?? what the?? I mean, I have experienced where you just lose touch with people over time and don't initiate contact anymore, that's very common. But if you see someone again, of course you acknowledge them! To see them and pretend you don't know them, is just creepy.

OK I take that back, I have had that happen to me.

A former boss kept on pretending he didn't see me whenever I would run into him at industry events. In fact he would go out of his way to avoid me. it was weird. I don't know why. We were on good terms when I worked for him. I've heard from other former colleagues that he does this to them too. we all think he's creepy because of that.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2012):

Loads and loads of people. From old school-friends, to colleagues, to exes etc. The world moves on, and we have to move with it.

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A female reader, Staceily United States +, writes (21 November 2012):

Staceily agony auntOh yeah, plenty of people. I literally just saw a girl I was good friends with in high school a week ago. We didn't acknowledge each other. You just get out of touch with some people, she went away to college and I don't have Facebook so we stopped talking long ago. It was easier to act like I didn't see her than to make small talk in the grocery store so that's what we did. It has happened on more than one occasion but that's the most recent.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2012):

Oh yeah. Lots. your not alone. It happens, we used to be friends but now friends no more.

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A male reader, Hennessy1989 United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2012):

Hennessy1989 agony auntI know exactly what you mean, and I think at our age we first start to experience this, we are all getting older and going our separate ways and its sometimes difficult to stay in touch. At different points of my teen years I spent a lot of time with friends, people I thought I'd never lose touch with, some of them i haven't seen in a very long time, it's sad but just the way things are

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A male reader, anonymous12345150 United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2012):

i spent everyday with my ex girlfriend for a year and a half,every single day,now we dont talk at all,also didnt talk to my mum for about 4 years so yes......unfortunately people come and go but its life i guess.

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