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Did this paedophile take my virginity?

Q.   Well i've been with this man for 13 months, he's 22.. i think. im not goin to tell u how old i am but im not younger than 13. i always go to his house. we dont have PROPER sex.. we just like rub against each other, but we're naked.. you might tink ...

A.   26 December 2007: well if your going out and you didnt resite then no but some people may think of him as a pedo because you could be younger than `16 if older than thats ok. dont worry about this did he wear a condom?? ... (read in full...)

We're friends but very different, he wants a relationship, do I go for it?

Q.   I have a friend who I like alot (we are both 19) and I know he likes me too, but Im not sure if its worth giving us a go. The reason I think it may not be is because we are soooooooo different. He is a very out going, flirty, sociable person, ...

A.   26 December 2007: i used to be you with my current boyrfriend we were such close friends and he actually was in love with me and i really liked him but we were best friends but everything is worth taking a chance because it may turn out to be the best thing ever. Try ... (read in full...)

Is she right for me?

Q.   there's this girl i've liked alot for over a year. Its come to a point where i'm crazy over but her am not asking her out because i'm scared of losing the great friendship we have. One of her friends, also mine who knows i like the girl told me...

A.   30 November 2007: Hey .. Totally go for it hon there aint no point holding back if ur crazy about her at least u give it a shot tell her i don't want to lose a great friendship but seriously tell her how u feel Signed ;; Charlaa... (read in full...)

Two guys want me and I can't choose, help me!!

Q.   I was goin out with my boyfriend for 5 years, I broke up wih him about 2months ago to go out with a guy who I have known for a gud few years who i have always been very good friends with and dated for a few months in school. my ex keeps ringing and ...

A.   28 November 2007: Been there ! look which one makes you happy. Which one cares for you and loves you,treats you like a princess and wants to be happy which one do you really love. You dont need advice that one is all youuu x Good luck also just break it gently to... (read in full...)

My 'friend' acts strangely around me and cheats on her homework. Please help, I don't know what to do about her

Q.   Dear cupid, i'm having problems with my mate. i only call her a mate but she says i'm her best friend but anyways she annoys me alot nowadays, the other day i was talking and she wasn't listening and it was obvious so i stopped talking and just said ...

A.   24 November 2007: Wow for such a young person you have alot of problems with just one friend. I used to have a friend just like her. Try and hang out with some old mates and completly blank her she will get the messgae and relise what she lost maybe you should talk ... (read in full...)

Confused......

Q.   I am married with three children. I have a very demanding job and work long hours. My husband is away abroad for months at a time-sometimes up to six months. He claims it is business related but I feel ignored and used. I have to pay all the bills, ...

A.   24 November 2007: Look i felt exactly the same way as you. Before i met my recent boyfriend. And ive been with him for 10 months now and i feel like its going to last forever. On the other hand your husband is away not caring for you you may be overwealmed that ... (read in full...)

Undressing...

Q.   My questions involve getting undressed. When making out how will we know when it is time to remove our clothes? Should I ask him to undress or just undress him? Should we undress in the bedroom or can we strip in route to the bedroom? Should kissing ...

A.   22 November 2007: Hey Lexii. Look I know this one i was there. When your kissing put a song on and the while kissing him on the lips just start undressing it he will return the favour if your using protection have a condom at the ready ok. Dont speek let the ki... (read in full...)

Do I go for maintenance or not?

Q.   Hi every1, im in a bit of a delemma. I was seeing a guy for a few months and i thought everything was fine until his friend told me had a gf in another state. I tried to end it although after a drunken night wed hooked up, it was the last time i s...

A.   20 November 2007: First of all im totally agaisnt abotions too im 14 and ive have one already and i still cry now im totally agaisnt it. Look bring it up and stay away from him and his life he dosent know what the hell he is missin you will get alot of support from ... (read in full...)

How do I control my anger towards him?

Q.   help! I'm only 17 and everyone around me are saying I'm growing up way too fast or way too mature. So far I have a nice life: my own house, my own car rouchcharge mustang 07 (my parents bought me), the job im working at is fine. But everything g...

A.   20 November 2007: Hey. Well arguements can start really easily at silly little things. Explain this to him he may have a reason help. Go to your local gp if it carrys on you may find you have an anger problem.... (read in full...)

Are my feelings OK with him impression of me.

Q.   Hi all- Ok, I must admit first off to being a bit of a snoop. My boyfriend checked his myspace account on my computer earlier, and when I went to sign in later his home page was still up. I listened to the little devil on my shoulder and looked i...

A.   15 October 2007: Well to be honest i have the same problem. The best thing to do is to trust you boyfriend dont snoop or nothing it will make you feel worse ok. Just confront him and say you do trust him but its playing on your mind need anything else dont hesitate ... (read in full...)

What's good for the goose is good for the gander, right?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend are in a a slight situation. She won't give me oral (or fellatio) yet she insists i give her oral saying it will satisfy us both. I told her unless she gives me oral I won't give her oral. Ws I right, or am I just thinking...

A.   15 October 2007: Don't all boys think about them selves really. Well to be honest show her some curiosity give her it first and she will want it back I'm a girl and i should know. Just turn her on give her oral or the best way is to tease her until she cant resist. ... (read in full...)

Is Uncle messing around?

Q.   Hi everyone I think my uncle is having a affair with another woman,i was playing with his phone then i went his messages without his permission and i looked in his inbox i found lots of text that lead to think he is having a affair he is married ...

A.   15 October 2007: Well first of all you shouldn't have been snopping but again it's better that you know. Maybe you should confront him about it or speak to someone you know well and can trust and get there opinion about it. Then again it's nothing to do with you ... (read in full...)

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