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Did I do something wrong here?

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Question - (11 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello everyone, I need a bit of advice. Two Saturdays ago I went to my local pub/restraunt where I had met my boyfreind (now ex), everything was going well in a way, but he kept on believing his mate over me, anyway cut a long story short, as I said, me and a mate went back there for a meal, in which his close mate I'll call ? was in there, ? was on the phone to my boyfriend talking really loudly, before the end of the phone call ? said I'll let you know if anything happens,(I felt I was always being watched by ?) anyway my mate is very pretty and attracts loads of guys and that day we where talking to 2 guys when we where playing pool nothing else happened just talking. Anyway before we left ? asked if I could give him a lift home in which I said no as I did not want to upset my boyfriend,

To cut an even long story short again, my boyfriend went very quiet, I really wanted to see him, then out of the blue I got a text saying he did not feel the same and we should end the relationship. I felt like I had done something wrong, did I? We were only out for 6 weeks and never had sex as I wasn't ready. Also in the text he said all I do is sit there? What did he mean? DO YOU GUYS THINK HIS MATE TOLD HIM SOMETHING THAT WAS NOT TRUE? My mates seem to think so like he was jealous and trying to get in between us and it worked.

Please help I'm not sure who else to talk to

thank you,

xsammy x

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (12 February 2008):

dearkelja agony auntBetter off with a guy who does his dirty deeds with a text message. Doesn't sound too caring to me. Who says "all you do is sit there." It is possible his mate said something but who cares. His mate is as much a loser as he is. Sent to (and accepted the assignment) to spy on you. The dude is probably pissed that you would not give him a ride home.

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A female reader, didapoo United States +, writes (12 February 2008):

didapoo agony auntHi. I think that his friend may have said something, or he is just upset because you wouldnt have sex with him. Dont think that it was something you did, because if he was really into you, he would have told you why he was ending it. It sounds to me like he is nothing more than a pig. I also think that you are better off, because it is a very brave thing you are doing, protecting yourself like that. You should give yourself a slap on the shoulder!!

Take care

Dida

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