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writes:Hi guys im 15. basically i started talking to this boy for a couple of months and i guess i took advantage of all his compliments. I couldnt commit to anything with the boy because my freind also liked him for a little, he understood that but said he would wait around until my freind was fully over him.But i hookedup with a differnt boy( 1 time thing) and i told the him he got reallly mad at me but then got over it. i did the same thing again with someone else. He wouldnt talk to me for 5 days or anything. Finally i got to hang out with him and i said sorry. i thought we were fine until that night he told me he was still so pissed off and how he can never trust me or anything. He said he wanted nothing to do with me, he didnt want me in his life, and didnt wanna be my freind. i tried to get him back but he said how hes not giving me another chance. he is not going out of his way to do anything for me i owe it all to him he said. He already moved on to this other girl he is planning on hooking up with. I deleted him off my facebook. buddylist. cell phone. i like him and want him so much more now that i cant have him and i dont know waht to do. i see him in school and he goes out of his way to be a dick. If im walking wiht my freind he will be like Hi to my freind and not me. people told me to just wait around and he will come back to me ? waht do you think.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionaright so now he is talking to me again hah . so what he said obvisly he did not mean it. we are flirting with eachtother but i am still so confused with what he wants with me. He is hooking up with this other girl. What should i do?
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 this is not getting off to a good start is it? Begining a relationship with trust issues is an exercise in pointless behaviour.
things are broken here so move on and get something thats interesting when its not removed from accessability. you just want to have some more feelings to distract you from daily boredom. stimulate yourself with other activities.
he's not that great
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 'i want him so much more now that i cant have him' - ppl want wat they cant have and wen they get it the novelty wears off. wen you had him you didnt want him - ie the hanging out with other guys, and now that someone else has him he looks all shiny and new again??! thats not very mature. why did you do that to him in the first place? you cant have liked him that much if you were willing to see other guys. its not fair to try and win him back just cos you want the chase and you cant have him - thats silly and childish - no offence or anything. to me that seems to be the only reason you want him now. wat if he did come back to you, would you commit and not see anyone else? apologise to him and try and be friends with him again, give him some time, you never know - you might see someone else you want to chase or you mite find that you actually really like him - and not because you cant have him. and if you do, being friends is a good place to start. good luck
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