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*amieeBeth
writes:I've had a crush on a guy for a very long time and it's come down to nothing. I basically just wasted three years of my life and I'm mad about it. He led me on and now I'm forced to suffer.What I really want to know is how do I get back at him? What do I do? He's very intelligent and yet his mind seems to be controlled by his "under region". I know the outline of my plan (to just look downright hot.) but are there specifics that guys really like so that way everytime I walk by him he dies a little more inside? ANY adivce will do. I'm just really fed up with all his nonsense and think he should get a taste of his own medicine.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (29 April 2011):
 The best way to get revenge on someone whos hurt you, is to just cut them out of your life completly. Move on, live your life and don't look back. When you see him feel distain and if he tries to talk to you show no interest and walk away.
Did that to an ex who treated me like crap, and low and behold he started telling my friends he was upset that I moved on so fast and acted like a wounded puppy around me. But he had his chance and threw it away. He hurt me and one day something just snapped and I saw him for who he really was. After that I didnt want to be near him one moment longer, I had wasted too much time already being nice to him, for him to treat me like crap in return.
It sounds like this has happend to you. You've reached a truning point, so don't look back. You don't need to try to show him what he's lost, just BE yourself, live your life, ignore him completly and one day he will realise what he lost. By then you will be so far away and glad of it :)
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (29 April 2011):
 Forget about him. Stop trying to impress him and just totally ignore him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 April 2011):
 Living well is the best revenge.so live wellbe happyhave friendsdo thingsignore him. he's a bug to be squashed in your life...
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (29 April 2011):
 Crushed by a Crush.I'd crush him with my mind.Get a degree in nuclear biology. Actually, by then, you'll probably be married to the right guy and won't remember this guys name.
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reader, Kirchy +, writes (29 April 2011):
 I know it's difficult but sometimes things just don't work out. If you really want to make him jealous then pretend it hasn't fazed you at all. If he wants you back then he'll make a move but you don't want to show him you're hung up about it because you may seem clingy and that's not the impression you want to give off. Just let him come to you.Hope this helps. :)
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