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Crush for long time comes down to nothing

Q.   I've had a crush on a guy for a very long time and it's come down to nothing. I basically just wasted three years of my life and I'm mad about it. He led me on and now I'm forced to suffer. What I really want to know is how do I get back at him?...

A.   29 April 2011: I know it's difficult but sometimes things just don't work out. If you really want to make him jealous then pretend it hasn't fazed you at all. If he wants you back then he'll make a move but you don't want to show him you're hung up about it beca... (read in full...)

I think if this guy was closer my g/f would be with him, not me

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now, and i really like her alot. We say we love eachother daily, but i really dont even know what love is. She does alot of shit that bothers me and i can't tell if im over reacting or if im angry ...

A.   29 April 2011: You do need to learn to trust her more. I know that I would hate that if my boyfriend was jealous of me and my best friend I would get angry. My best friend is a guy and we are really close so it would annoy me if my boyfriend was jealous of that ... (read in full...)

Is this the kind of person I should try to stay with?

Q.   Need some advice how to move on.. my bf of 2 yrs broke up with me today after not speakn with him for a month.. I had givn him time to try to get over my past of me cheating on my ex....and he now decided it wuz something he couldn't deal with..cuz ...

A.   29 April 2011: The thing is that it is going to be difficult trying to adjust to the idea of something like that. If he's insecure then of course it's going to bother him. I know that I would be constantly worried about it. You just need to try and convince him ... (read in full...)

Does his defensiveness mean something?

Q.   What would you make of this?...My husband and I are driving in the car, he says: "I'm going out of town on Monday I have a meeting and I put in for two nights so I can do this other thing while I'm there and kill two birds with one stone." ...

A.   29 April 2011: I wouldn't worry too much about it. He could be trying to arrange something special for you. If you seriously think that he's hiding something then you need to talk to him. Tell him you're worried about what's going on. I know it's easier said than ... (read in full...)

This boy or that boy?

Q.   Okay, so I liked this boy, and then we almost got together, but I sorta screwed it up, and he got a gf, and then stopped talkin to me, and we use to be BESTEST of freinds, and him stop talkin to me hurt me badly. Now after months of not being my ...

A.   29 April 2011: I think what you need to do is decide that if you were to get together with the new guy and the other was to tell you he still liked you, what would you feel? If you think that you would start having doubts about the new guy if that was to happ... (read in full...)

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