Confusing me with mixes signals.

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi. Just wanting some advice on a work/ relationship problem. I have been working at my current job for over a year now and last week we had a work party, which was the first one I had been to at this company. My problem is that i ( along with nearly everyone else) got a bit drunk. I ended up talking heaps to some of the women I don't usually get on with including one of my four bosses. I have never really liked her as she is usually quite rude to me. Anyway some of us went into the city afterwards and my boss and I were inseperable all night. Others that were with us were suprised as there is also a 14 year age gap. I ended up going back to her house and talking for ages. We didn't sleep together but she asked me to massage her while we were in bed and held my hand and cuddled me to sleep. I have been in relationships with other women before and she told me that she has too. She said she would message me but didn't. When i went back to work she was very nice and chatty and kept looking at me which is very unlike her but when others were around she seemed uneasy with me. This might not sound like a problem but seeing as we never usually talk I don't know what to do. She is confusing me with mixed signals.Does she want more or should I just leave her alone?

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